Wayneo Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Hi, didn't know if I posted in the right topic...but I'm looking for some advice. I'm trying to work out whether a girl I've been spending time with sees me as a friend or more. My question is, if she was only interested in being friends.... would she keep the fact she has been seeing another guy a secret or would she talk openly about him? Please bear in mind she told me because we stumbled upon the topic in conversation, and she told me that she thinks "it's not gonna last"? They have been out 6 or 7 times in the last 6 weeks. Thanks, W. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Guys who are in the "friend zone" - YOU - may or may not hear about other guys she's dating, especially if she's not serious about the other guy. It doesn't mean she's interested in you if she doesn't tell you about the other guy. If she's interested in you, she'd be dating you, wouldn't she? Or have you never asked her out? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wayneo Posted December 7, 2006 Author Share Posted December 7, 2006 Thanks, I've never asked her out. I was about to before I found out about this other guy. I get signs from her that she does like me - body language and otherwise. Now this has put a doubt in my mind. Was she making herself still available despite this other guy, because I get a gut feeling that if he wasn;t in the picture she would definately agree to go out with me. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Kamille Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 Ask her out. Then find out. This is the kind of situation that we could analyze forever, but none of us know whether or not she is into you. Only she can answer that. The only advantage the other guy has on you is that he had the guts to ask her out! Do it! do it do it do it. ask her out. before she changes her mind about the potential of the relationship with the other guy's she's dating. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wayneo Posted December 8, 2006 Author Share Posted December 8, 2006 Thanks, Norajane and Kamille, I think she is/was interested in me for sure. But now shes "sorta seeing" this other guy I'm wondering if she's still available to be asked out and was kinda hinting so by her explanation. You are right I need to stop analysing. Any more thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 You are right I need to stop analysing. Any more thoughts? yea, as i stated earlier....forget about her words and look at her actions. Link to post Share on other sites
Parmalat Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 I'd say go for it, ask her out. She seems interested, she is not in a serious relationship with the other guy, they are not exclusive, so ask her out. Link to post Share on other sites
silentalways Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 hey, that's just what i did with my 2 day fling! lol i asked her straight up - if u are dating, then - take care she said yup i paused for a second that was my grief period said take care that's life in datingland man Link to post Share on other sites
Krytellan Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 You can try to hide in a different forum, but my advice is the same. JUST DO IT already. Is a "no" gonna make your head explode or something? Link to post Share on other sites
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