allovertheplace Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 I just moved from Rhode Island to Florida and bought a house with a man I have been dating for 2.5 years and I think I made a mistake. I am actually in the process of packing my things to go home but I keep wondering if I am making the right decision. I care about him and I do not want to hurt him and I am afraid if I stay with him that will be the only reason why. He promised to change and never followed through and I am sick of feeling like I am wasting my time and my soul mate is out there. We lost the passion and we are young is that normal I have no desire to want to talk to him or be with him. Any advice would be helpful. Should I stay and see what happens or should I move on and find my soul mate? Link to post Share on other sites
melodymatters Posted December 7, 2006 Share Posted December 7, 2006 This is all a big decision. Have you talked it over with him, does he feel the same way ? Realize that even when you find your " soul mate" ( not that I belive theres any such thing) eventually the passion will cool and you may very well find yourself in the same position. Without knowing more details, I'm not sure what else to say. Link to post Share on other sites
Author allovertheplace Posted December 7, 2006 Author Share Posted December 7, 2006 He knows how I feel and doesn't really say much except do whatever you want, so it makes it harder. I know that romance fades with time but is it normal after 2.5 years to not have any desire to be with someone, is it just a phase or does it mean something. I broke up with him once before because I was not happy and he had habits I did not like, he came back and promised to change so I gave him a 2nd chance and nothing has changed. Link to post Share on other sites
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