Woggle Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 I really feel like lately I am on a journey towards bettering myself for the first time. I am not even that angry anymore. I don't even hate my mother and my ex like I used to. I look at them as lost people who are so far gone that I doubt they could ever come back. It inspires pity in me instead of anger these days. When people feel powerless they tend to lash out and my entire life until recently I have felt powerless. I no longer feel that way and it gives me a new lease on life. Sure my insecurity and trust issues are still there but I feel like I am going where I want to be. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 Kudos to you Woggle, I am impressed. I understand what you're saying, i feel the same way since I re-started therapy a few months ago. Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 you really have changed for the better Wog....... your posts reflect that. I am Happy for you! :bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
Mythical Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 you really have changed for the better Wog....... your posts reflect that. I am Happy for you! :bunny: Whoa!! is that you?! you have a very lng tongue Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 Whoa!! is that you?! you have a very lng tongue i knoooooow! Link to post Share on other sites
Mythical Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 i knoooooow! you actually look like this girl i went to school with...weird Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 you actually look like this girl i went to school with...weird u look like this girl I wish I had gone to school with Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 I really feel like lately I am on a journey towards bettering myself for the first time. I am not even that angry anymore. I don't even hate my mother and my ex like I used to. I look at them as lost people who are so far gone that I doubt they could ever come back. It inspires pity in me instead of anger these days. When people feel powerless they tend to lash out and my entire life until recently I have felt powerless. I no longer feel that way and it gives me a new lease on life. Sure my insecurity and trust issues are still there but I feel like I am going where I want to be. Good deal. I had lots of anger myself way back then and just like you, I went on a journey and realized that things are just just not worth holding a grudge against. Instead, you can use that energy to improve yourself in some way. Link to post Share on other sites
Mythical Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 u look like this girl I wish I had gone to school with no no you wouldn't have! I was trouble! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 you really have changed for the better Wog....... your posts reflect that. I am Happy for you! :bunny: I am glad for you too Woggy! You wanted to change your outlook, and ya did it! Jesus LRB, that's quite a tongue you have there! Link to post Share on other sites
dgiirl Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 Woggle, keep up the good work! It takes a while to get over the betrayal. But remember, any gender can betray us, and by holding on to the anger only hurts US not the ones who betrayed us. There's truth in the phrase the best revenge is living well. And that means keeping our integrity and keeping our faith. Dont let them make us become bitter people like they are, that only lets them win, and I'll be damned if they'll win. Have faith in yourself to be able to handle whatever path you are faced with! Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 Woggle, keep up the good work! It takes a while to get over the betrayal. But remember, any gender can betray us, and by holding on to the anger only hurts US not the ones who betrayed us. There's truth in the phrase the best revenge is living well. And that means keeping our integrity and keeping our faith. Dont let them make us become bitter people like they are, that only lets them win, and I'll be damned if they'll win. Have faith in yourself to be able to handle whatever path you are faced with! Well this about makes my post chop liver. J/K dgiirl. Very well written. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 no no you wouldn't have! I was trouble! I loved getting into trouble Link to post Share on other sites
bluetuesday Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 delighted to hear this, woggle, i really am. Link to post Share on other sites
dgiirl Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 Well this about makes my post chop liver. J/K dgiirl. Very well written. yah but you're male, he might listen to you (J/k!!!) Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted December 8, 2006 Share Posted December 8, 2006 ... and my entire life until recently I have felt powerless. why did u feel powerless WOGGLE?? Link to post Share on other sites
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