silentalways Posted December 9, 2006 Share Posted December 9, 2006 what a wickedly positive and true post and great comments everyone. if i may add my 2.5 cents as well, i would first like to make a confession that will shock everyone that has read any of my posts - but it will not shock my ex because i have told her things like this since the first day we met...ok, ready? i have been ranting, and complaining, and whining and fussing and breaking and blaming some of my troubles on something i have said i hate with a passion and that is NO CONTACT and i have been upset, hurt, depressed, angry, etc. as a result of my ex shovelling it down my throat and after all those months i have a confession to make to all [then a thank you - because u can still stand up fer yerself and give thanks where thanks is deserved] NO CONTACT has actually been the very thing that has enabled me to refocus [took a while but it sunk in] on what my ex's behaviours were telling me [get lost creeepy man] and then back onto myself and actually start doing the things and becoming the MAN i have been saying i want to be over all these months. and anyone that knows me, has seen all the things i have accomplished, my attitude, etc. are super proud but i am first in line to congratulate myself. Finally. so, yes, damn it - i does work [eating black crow pie now - lol] and as always, i thank the ex for being the one that did that, and stayed strong even though i pestered to the point where she fears old GM now but those days are over because i can now do the things i couldn't before. so, thank u c.a.g. i know its not much after all that but u know u have always 'helped' in some way, my development into ultra-single-hunkster - so i just wanted to give a little bit of credit to u [even tho u did just for yerself u selfish....lol] but i did all the hard work! SO there u have it! Link to post Share on other sites
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