bbelmont83 Posted December 12, 2006 Share Posted December 12, 2006 Becky and I have been in a long distance relationship for over a year now. She lives in Missouri and I in Texas. We met on a website and just hit it off. It was instant attraction for me. Over the time we have been together we have had our rocky moments like any relationship, but we only fell deeper in love as time past. About 10 or 11 months after we met she flew down for a day for our first meeting. God it was miracle to see her with my own eyes and getting to wrap my arms around her for the first time. I had gotten us reservations at a very nice little bed and breakfast with our own little cabin. Fireplace, leather sofa, big plasma tv, big bed, and amazing bathroom with a jacuzzi tub for 2. I wont go into details about what went on in that cabin, except that we ordered in;). It really was a magical evening, one that I will never forget, and hope to reinact one day when we are old and grey. Unfortunately she had to return the very next day. So I drove her back to the airport and stood at the gate till I couldnt see her anymore. I did my best not to cry in front of her that day, and made it back to my car before I balled my eyes out. She later confessed to me that she did the same thing in the bathroom before she got on the plane. Anyhoo, that was back in the summer. We had talked about starting a monthly trip. But that never happened. Due to reacuring unfortunate events we have yet to see eachother again. We had always used the internet as our main way to communicate with eachother. Every night for hours and hours. But now she has no internet or phone and hasnt had these things for a while. She cant afford them at the moment, so she has been getting to a payphone every few days to call me. Its so hard without her. I also get so worried about her and the kids when I dont here from her. I was helping take care of her and the kids best I could, but now I cant even send money to help. Also she doesnt have a mail box. At the new place she lives now she has to get a P.O. Box, but hasnt yet. I will always be commited to her no matter what happens, and will do anything and everything in my power to get things settled again. But its so hard to do anything the way things are now. Does anyone have any tips on our situation? We have plans for her to move down here in April and for her and I to get a home together. And this is really making that plan a lot harder. Sorry about the rambling. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 Im sorry to say this but just from what your telling us here it sounds odd to me. I mean ok you met this women on line thats fine. But why could she only come up for one day? I mean thats a bit short no? Makes you realy wonder why maybe she had some one else home she had to go back to. And also just wondering did you pay for everything that night? And her transport there as well? And then you say shes hard to contact now no phone at all?? And what really sends a RED FLAG most for me here is. You said you have helped her and her kids in the past money wise. Now Im realy not trying to burst your bubble and I could be wrong. But I have a odd feeling you might have been and are being played by this women. Just watch out ok as a genral rule you should never have to give out money to people you meet on line. Sorry again just trying to look out for ya. Maybe others feel the same way when they read his post or is it just me???? Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedSarah Posted December 30, 2006 Share Posted December 30, 2006 I agree with guest. In your post it seems very odd... Sounds more like the woman is playing you about. Link to post Share on other sites
vanessabg Posted December 30, 2006 Share Posted December 30, 2006 Becky and I have been in a long distance relationship for over a year now. She lives in Missouri and I in Texas. We met on a website and just hit it off. It was instant attraction for me. Over the time we have been together we have had our rocky moments like any relationship, but we only fell deeper in love as time past. About 10 or 11 months after we met she flew down for a day for our first meeting. God it was miracle to see her with my own eyes and getting to wrap my arms around her for the first time. I had gotten us reservations at a very nice little bed and breakfast with our own little cabin. Fireplace, leather sofa, big plasma tv, big bed, and amazing bathroom with a jacuzzi tub for 2. I wont go into details about what went on in that cabin, except that we ordered in;). It really was a magical evening, one that I will never forget, and hope to reinact one day when we are old and grey. Unfortunately she had to return the very next day. So I drove her back to the airport and stood at the gate till I couldnt see her anymore. I did my best not to cry in front of her that day, and made it back to my car before I balled my eyes out. She later confessed to me that she did the same thing in the bathroom before she got on the plane. Anyhoo, that was back in the summer. We had talked about starting a monthly trip. But that never happened. Due to reacuring unfortunate events we have yet to see eachother again. We had always used the internet as our main way to communicate with eachother. Every night for hours and hours. But now she has no internet or phone and hasnt had these things for a while. She cant afford them at the moment, so she has been getting to a payphone every few days to call me. Its so hard without her. I also get so worried about her and the kids when I dont here from her. I was helping take care of her and the kids best I could, but now I cant even send money to help. Also she doesnt have a mail box. At the new place she lives now she has to get a P.O. Box, but hasnt yet. I will always be commited to her no matter what happens, and will do anything and everything in my power to get things settled again. But its so hard to do anything the way things are now. Does anyone have any tips on our situation? We have plans for her to move down here in April and for her and I to get a home together. And this is really making that plan a lot harder. Sorry about the rambling. As sounds look odd,i don't under that why you lost yourself for a unknown women in which you met through net and never met her face to face. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 30, 2006 Share Posted December 30, 2006 Um I think she was trying to say she dosent understand how he fell for some one hes never met. Well I can understand that it happends in this day and age. Its not overly easey to find love and we some times tend to hang on to any little inkling of it we can find. How ever like I said in the poast before Its just odd soundeing. And I was just readeing it again something else caut my eye that hadent before. Shes liveing in a place that she cant get mail?? Even at a motel you can still receve mail at the front desk if I rember right.. Just all in all odd I do hope hes not sending this women his hard earned money all the time. Ok again sorry if I sound like a bummer here best wishes to you thou Link to post Share on other sites
kristy102 Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 Damn where can i meet a man like you ???? Sheesh Ok i can understand totaly the internet dating thing , ive done the same well actually i flew all the way to texas from australia to meet a guy. Which was really good, we still talk 4 yours later ... theres no relationship but its a great friendship. ... the one question that came to mind for me is ...... why cant you go see her even if its just for a weekend ?? It is puzzling you dont know where she is though ... living wise , and her kids man thats not kool that your helping support them , i think you are more committed than her !! Your too trusting i think .. but hmm would like to know more of thye story before i say much more Kristy Link to post Share on other sites
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