snowdiamond Posted December 12, 2006 Share Posted December 12, 2006 I'm curious to know how long after anyone broke up with an ex did it take for them to contact you? I ask because a friend of mines just got contacted by an ex whom she used to date about 10 years ago. He married another woman when they were dating. He's now divorced and has a six year old son. She told me that he's been trying to contact her several times with emails and phone call, but she hasn't given in. She wasn't interested in returning his emails or phone calls, but they've become more frequent. She's definitely moved on, but I think she is interested to see what he wants after all of these years. Anyone ever been contacted by an ex after so many years? If this has been asked before, I can remove the question. Thanks!! Link to post Share on other sites
Spinderella Posted December 12, 2006 Share Posted December 12, 2006 So he cheated on her AND got married behind her back? It sounds as though he is looking back over his life in the light of his divorce and feeling regretful, wondering if things would have turned out differently had he stayed with your friend. Personally, I find it a bit strange to not go forward in life, and wouldn't feel too comfortable with someone who couldn't do that. I think people only look back like this when they are feeling very lonely. I know men have a tendency to do this more than women. she could always ask him what he wants, if she is curious. Why does she want to know? Does she still have feelings?? Link to post Share on other sites
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