Guest Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Is it normal for a 23 year old guy to jerk off every chance he gets, even if he is getting laid regularly and sex is REALLY good?! It seems like the second I leave the house, or go in the shower - anytime he's home alone - the first thing he wants to do is jerk off, and usually it's to internet porn or anything on TV. I know guys jerk off in and out of relationships, but I thought it was mainly like during the week I'm on my period ie: when he's NOT getting laid regularly? Right now, even if we have great sex at night, soon as I leave in the morning for work he's jerking off. Or if in the morning we have great sex, soon as I'm out of the house later he's jerking off to porn again. I know everyone keeps saying its normal for a guy his age to jerk off often - but how often is OFTEN? And if he gets laid all the time, why the need? It's almost like he gets excited when I leave the house so he can grab and lube and go to town. HELP! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 He sounds like a real jerk off. Well, in a way he's addicted to masturbation but what he's actually addicted to is sex. It's the feeling he gets when he climaxes, either through self abuse or through intercourse. Hey, it's a pretty decent feeling. I'm amazed that you know all the occasions he does this. You must have cameras everywhere. What he doesn't realize is that over a period of time, masturbation will cause some damage that will decrease his enjoyment of sex. This may happen in ten years or twenty years. You need to have a talk with him and let him know just how much this bothers you. But don't expect him to change. Addictions are VERY HARD to overcome, especially when they are as pleasurable and inexpensive as jerking off. It's a cheap way to get off and for a 23 year old, it's a great feeling. It gets very serious when the masturbation becomes preferable to sex. If that ever becomes the case, it's time to get him serious help. For now, it's your call. Maybe you could give him a hand in getting over this problem...huh? Link to post Share on other sites
Lostgurl Posted December 13, 2006 Share Posted December 13, 2006 Is it normal for a 23 year old guy to jerk off every chance he gets, even if he is getting laid regularly and sex is REALLY good?! It seems like the second I leave the house, or go in the shower - anytime he's home alone - the first thing he wants to do is jerk off, and usually it's to internet porn or anything on TV. I know guys jerk off in and out of relationships, but I thought it was mainly like during the week I'm on my period ie: when he's NOT getting laid regularly? Right now, even if we have great sex at night, soon as I leave in the morning for work he's jerking off. Or if in the morning we have great sex, soon as I'm out of the house later he's jerking off to porn again. I know everyone keeps saying its normal for a guy his age to jerk off often - but how often is OFTEN? And if he gets laid all the time, why the need? It's almost like he gets excited when I leave the house so he can grab and lube and go to town. HELP! I can sympathize with you.... My bf (who is 35 BTW) is the same. But i never let it bother me all that much... He has a HUGE sex drive.. and there isn't anything at all i can do about it except.... Enjoy it! LOL No sweetie, seriously.. Like Tony said, until he'd rather jerk off than have sex with you, i'd say don't let it bother you... I mean at least your not finding weird phone numbers, and all the ol' cliches like lipstick on the collar right? He's just pleasuring himself, and IMO, and in my own case also... it's better than him doing the deed with some one else while your at work right? Take care, Lost Link to post Share on other sites
gloria Posted December 21, 2006 Share Posted December 21, 2006 thats exactly my problem. my boyfriend is 19 and his mom says hes been watching porn and magazines and everything since he was 12. He'd rather watch webcams and call 1800 numbers and dirty movies then have sex with me. I try and try and he's always too tired for me, but the moment I leave Ill come back and catch him on the spu or notice his debit card bills. And its been almost 2 weeks since we have had sex. Im 19 and want to have sex with my boyfriend but he doesnt want to it seems like im ugly and fat. idk what to do. any suggestions? I can sympathize with you.... My bf (who is 35 BTW) is the same. But i never let it bother me all that much... He has a HUGE sex drive.. and there isn't anything at all i can do about it except.... Enjoy it! LOL No sweetie, seriously.. Like Tony said, until he'd rather jerk off than have sex with you, i'd say don't let it bother you... I mean at least your not finding weird phone numbers, and all the ol' cliches like lipstick on the collar right? He's just pleasuring himself, and IMO, and in my own case also... it's better than him doing the deed with some one else while your at work right? Take care, Lost Link to post Share on other sites
ahsumgurl909 Posted December 21, 2006 Share Posted December 21, 2006 and enjoy its called mutual masterbation. I do this with my masterbating BF and we end up having great sex before its over. I love wathing a man do this. (gives me the chills ) why? I couldnt tell you Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted December 21, 2006 Share Posted December 21, 2006 Is it normal for a 23 year old guy to jerk off every chance he gets, even if he is getting laid regularly and sex is REALLY good?! It seems like the second I leave the house, or go in the shower - anytime he's home alone - the first thing he wants to do is jerk off, and usually it's to internet porn or anything on TV. I know guys jerk off in and out of relationships, but I thought it was mainly like during the week I'm on my period ie: when he's NOT getting laid regularly? Right now, even if we have great sex at night, soon as I leave in the morning for work he's jerking off. Or if in the morning we have great sex, soon as I'm out of the house later he's jerking off to porn again. I know everyone keeps saying its normal for a guy his age to jerk off often - but how often is OFTEN? And if he gets laid all the time, why the need? It's almost like he gets excited when I leave the house so he can grab and lube and go to town. HELP! I am 42 and I do the same thing. I thought I was some sort of sex addict, but I just have an extremely high sex drive. On little gust of wind traverses my jeans, and I have a major woody. Link to post Share on other sites
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