Tell me what you would do

[Guest]

I have become very good friends with the boss's wife. She recently found out that he cheated on her......She has found out more lately.

 

I have another friend who knows some things about others involved....should I tell her that she needs to talk to that person..or stay out of it and let her fiind out on her own.

 

Keep in mind, this intertwines with my job. I like the two of them, but am dissapointed that he would do this to her, because she is a wonderful person.

[annee]

I would keep my mouth shut if i were you. The harm has already been done she is hurt, knowing other details would only hurt her more. Her husband should be the one confessing not this other person who knows the people involved and you may loose this friendship if she thinks you discuss her with someone which i suppose is how you know that someone else knows the people involved. But if her husband denies everything and this person has evidence to prove the affair by all means tell her.

Good Luck

[Krytellan]

Yup. There is no reason foryou to get involved in the situation. I mean, I would tell a friend, but not the boss's wife... could only ruin your job.

[WhiteKnight]

Well this is a complicated issue for you to deal with. I would stay away from it.

 

Don't get involved. If you did, you would break the trust between yourself and your friend, including her husband. And anyone else involved. It's a rather delicate situation.

 

I've been through it before but what I did do was tell the husband about it and I lost the friendship with him and everything except the wife tries to stay in contact with me, despite the husband's warning not to keep in contact.

 

Its hard on what you are facing here but it would be for the best that you should keep your mouth shut until you have been asked (only when the husband denies it) and you have the support of your friends who have proof of this. For now, stay low and don't get yourself involved unless you've been asked to.