IpAncA Posted December 14, 2006 Share Posted December 14, 2006 Ok I've been helping my friend out at her elementary school here and there when I have time and since I've been around these younger kids it's bring these feelings of me wanting to have my own. Is that normal because I used to be around kids and they would get so annoying but seeing them in school and hanging out with them is different. Maybe's it's because their behaved but I was there today and I was like "I want to have my own now too." I was helping walk them in from outside and they were so small and cute and I was talking to them and I don't know but I just feel like I want one and they would actually making me laugh which is very hard for children to do. Usually I'm annoyed by them but not lately. Anyone ever get like that or am I just doing this because I'm around them more or maybe I really am ready. Who knows. Ugh...I'm so confused now. :confused: Link to post Share on other sites
Mythical Posted December 14, 2006 Share Posted December 14, 2006 Ok I've been helping my friend out at her elementary school here and there when I have time and since I've been around these younger kids it's bring these feelings of me wanting to have my own. Is that normal because I used to be around kids and they would get so annoying but seeing them in school and hanging out with them is different. Maybe's it's because their behaved but I was there today and I was like "I want to have my own now too." I was helping walk them in from outside and they were so small and cute and I was talking to them and I don't know but I just feel like I want one and they would actually making me laugh which is very hard for children to do. Usually I'm annoyed by them but not lately. Anyone ever get like that or am I just doing this because I'm around them more or maybe I really am ready. Who knows. Ugh...I'm so confused now. :confused: Hey, I actually get that feeling a lot lately, I think I made a post about it before. I also get it becasue i have been spending more time around kids, my b/fs nephews/neices etc.... I think more than ever he reason is I am very serious with my boy and love him to death....hes awesome with kids and love them too!! I don't know if you have a serious b/f but Im pretty positive thats what makes me want a lil one of my own Link to post Share on other sites
bab Posted December 14, 2006 Share Posted December 14, 2006 Ok I've been helping my friend out at her elementary school here and there when I have time and since I've been around these younger kids it's bring these feelings of me wanting to have my own. Is that normal because I used to be around kids and they would get so annoying but seeing them in school and hanging out with them is different. Maybe's it's because their behaved but I was there today and I was like "I want to have my own now too." I was helping walk them in from outside and they were so small and cute and I was talking to them and I don't know but I just feel like I want one and they would actually making me laugh which is very hard for children to do. Usually I'm annoyed by them but not lately. Anyone ever get like that or am I just doing this because I'm around them more or maybe I really am ready. Who knows. Ugh...I'm so confused now. :confused: It's called a biological clock. It's quite normal to get these feelings, but they don't necessarily mean that you are ready. Of course it's part of it, but only a small part. I get these feelings all the time, but I know that I want to do a bunch of traveling in the next couple of years and get my career really off the ground. Not the time for me, but my instinct is definitely to procreate. Just enjoy the cutness while you can still ship them back home to their parents. That is the true joy! Link to post Share on other sites
goodfriendeva Posted December 14, 2006 Share Posted December 14, 2006 completely normal.. its are [FONT=Arial][sIZE=2]maternal instincts... i know after having one of my own.. i find all kids to be alot cuter and enjoy all things even the ones i use to find annoying[/sIZE][/FONT] Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted December 14, 2006 Share Posted December 14, 2006 It's called a biological clock Yup, it's nature's way of saying "I need to procreate". Very natural. Link to post Share on other sites
Author IpAncA Posted December 14, 2006 Author Share Posted December 14, 2006 It's called a biological clock. It's quite normal to get these feelings, but they don't necessarily mean that you are ready. Of course it's part of it, but only a small part. I get these feelings all the time, but I know that I want to do a bunch of traveling in the next couple of years and get my career really off the ground. Not the time for me, but my instinct is definitely to procreate. Just enjoy the cutness while you can still ship them back home to their parents. That is the true joy! Well I put this in the wrong area. It should have been in the parenting. O well. Anyhow I am married and we did agree to wait a while but the last time we really seriously talked about it was gezz...I can't even remember. Probably sometime at the beginning of the year. But at that time I didn't have the feeling of wanting to and then hello they decided to show up. Link to post Share on other sites
VandGsMom Posted December 15, 2006 Share Posted December 15, 2006 I remember that feeling like I would explode if we didn't get pregnant instantly. And it has been hitting me really hard lately. I was in the process of getting ready to have my last ovary removed these last few weeks and I was going to have eggs frozen just in case before I found out I needed dialysis and then some other news I got yesterday. I knew I would probably never have more kids, but the option of it was comforting, now that I know I won't I just really want to go get some random man to donate and knock me up to feel pregnant one more time. Awful i know..... Link to post Share on other sites
Author IpAncA Posted December 15, 2006 Author Share Posted December 15, 2006 I remember that feeling like I would explode if we didn't get pregnant instantly. And it has been hitting me really hard lately. I was in the process of getting ready to have my last ovary removed these last few weeks and I was going to have eggs frozen just in case before I found out I needed dialysis and then some other news I got yesterday. I knew I would probably never have more kids, but the option of it was comforting, now that I know I won't I just really want to go get some random man to donate and knock me up to feel pregnant one more time. Awful i know..... Wow girl I'm sorry. I hope everything will be ok. At least you were able to have some children when you did so that's something to be thankful for. Link to post Share on other sites
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