Bupropion

[thecount]

Hi everyone. I'm the one with the thread "holy crap you're not going to believe this" if you have the time read it. it's a little long.

 

Remember when I said my g/f has melanoma and that she's taking meds for it to make her better, and that i found out what kind of meds they were "bupropion"? An antidressnet.

 

I did speak to her about it and she still swears that her doctor told her it's for her melanoma.

 

Well, I just got off the phone with her friend, and her friend just told me that she's taking the meds because my g/f said she's depressed. You know what that means? She knows what the medication is for and thus she's lying to me again. I just can't. She doesn't know i know yet.

 

How should i handle this without getting out of hand?

 

I can't deal with the lies anymore.

[CrushedOrgans]

Hi everyone. I'm the one with the thread "holy crap you're not going to believe this" if you have the time read it. it's a little long.

 

Remember when I said my g/f has melanoma and that she's taking meds for it to make her better, and that i found out what kind of meds they were "bupropion"? An antidressnet.

 

I did speak to her about it and she still swears that her doctor told her it's for her melanoma.

 

Well, I just got off the phone with her friend, and her friend just told me that she's taking the meds because my g/f said she's depressed. You know what that means? She knows what the medication is for and thus she's lying to me again. I just can't. She doesn't know i know yet.

 

How should i handle this without getting out of hand?

 

I can't deal with the lies anymore.

 

yeah, last i knew, bupoprion was used for anxiety-related (and depression) issues. it is also used to help people quit smoking.

 

the melanoma connection, i'm not seeing it, but i'm not a doctor. is she even being truthful about her health?

 

i think you're girlfriend has an attention problem.

 

 

p.s. the internet is a wonderful tool. you could do a little research yourself.

[norajane]

You need to decide how many lies you're willing to accept before you break up with her. Because she's not about to stop lying to you now. This is just the latest lie in a string of lies. Why do you put up with it? Are there really NO other women out there for you?

[CrushedOrgans]

You need to decide how many lies you're willing to accept before you break up with her. Because she's not about to stop lying to you now. This is just the latest lie in a string of lies. Why do you put up with it? Are there really NO other women out there for you?

 

and that too.

[D-Lish]

Well, your dilemma has two sides to it. On one hand she has been lying to you about a lot of things. On the other, perhaps her act of seeking medical help may be somewhat of a break through for her.

 

Perhaps she is embarrassed to tell you??? If that's the case, it's not as bad a lie as the others.

 

If she truly is making amends with herself and her problem- maybe this is the time to tell her you know what's up and offer your support. That would be your choice of course.

 

You've been through a lot with her manipulation and lies in the past- so you have to figure out if you're willing to stick by her and take a risk, or walk away.

 

My neighbour is a doc and I asked him about the meds- and he said the same thing- it is usually used to treat anxiety/depression.

If she is getting help, that could be seen as progress on her end.

 

You could confront her about it, and let her know you're open to helping/talking. Or you could say enough's enough and walk away. I suppose those are your choices at the moment.

Good luck,

Dee

[thecount]

D-Lish

I just spoke with her, I was firm. I told her this is it. You have better tell me everything.

She broke down and said my parents don't even know. I Just didn't want you to think that I was crazy. I feel depressed. she feels like she got the bad end in life. I told her, how can I help you if you cant' talk to me?

I asked her about the melanoma, and she said that it's under control. she goes to the doctor 2x a year to get checked out. Everythings been ok.

She said "I'm sorry" again.

I think this is it. There can't be anymore. I hope.