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4 year relationship syndrome


Rooster_DAR

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Is it me or does anybody else notice that cheating/breakups/divorce seem to center around the 4 year mark on average. My last two relationships ended at around this same period, and I notice more than half (rough estimate) the people who post here about cheating or ending relationships have around the same timeline.

 

Hmmmm......

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Are we so impatient and full of ADD that we can't even wait for the seven year itch anymore? I don't know the answer, just wanted to say something clever....and it wasn't all that clever after all.

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Are we so impatient and full of ADD that we can't even wait for the seven year itch anymore? .

The seven year itch was from the 50's and 60's. Now its the 3.5 year itch.

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I think there are alot of 13 year itches out there too. Several of them have posted on this board, myself included.

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I don't think you can nail down a time frame.. I think you just notice the similarities because it happened to you.

 

Kinda like after a breakup you notice how many people actually are driving the same car as your ex..

Heck.. I remember one ex that every time I saw a black Tahoe go by my house I thought it was her..it wasn't.. there just happen to be a lot of black Tahoe's out there and I never noticed it before.

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Thats when things get sour and old and a little bit less exciting. Some cuples go in too things never thinking about the future or the outcome of being together for a long time. Some can handel it and some get bored with it. I've seen alot of cuples out there who have been happily married for longer than I can remember.

 

When I get to my next relationship I'll let you know if there is a trend or a pattern with the time frames of my break ups lol

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wow. do u honesty think that spending so much time doing postings about stuff like this is better than being with someone special?

 

i put in 2 months of hard work and went nuts because of it - and i can't do that anymore. i would rather be with someone than do this hoping that someone notices.

 

i tried really hard, sorry. i can't keep this up if i want to be in a real relationship. its time for me to let go of this part. she knows the deal and has for a long time - and isn't interested.

 

ok. 2007, new me, new home, new life and outlook.

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