panzer6 Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 Can someone please explain to me why my ex still has my phone number, she seems to hate me more and more lately. We never hang out anymore and we don't talk at all. Sometimes she sends me texts messages but it's always negative stuff. If she hates me so much why does she keep my number? This makes no sense to me at all.
Mythical Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 Can someone please explain to me why my ex still has my phone number, she seems to hate me more and more lately. We never hang out anymore and we don't talk at all. Sometimes she sends me texts messages but it's always negative stuff. If she hates me so much why does she keep my number? This makes no sense to me at all. She's probabaly one of those syco ex's. My boy still hears from his ex after 2 years!! she says im callig the cops on you I hate you your the meanest person ever I wish I never met you etc.....She still wants to be with him! She tells ppl she is still with him its crazy.honestly ex's can be the craziest ppl you will ever meet..and im serious
Author panzer6 Posted December 15, 2006 Author Posted December 15, 2006 I know, it makes no sense to me. Why keep my number if all she has to say is negative things. It's like she hates me but doesn't want to let go of me. I still miss her and her 2 boys very much. It just makes things so hurtfull.
Mythical Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 I know, it makes no sense to me. Why keep my number if all she has to say is negative things. It's like she hates me but doesn't want to let go of me. I still miss her and her 2 boys very much. It just makes things so hurtfull. Yes that would be hard. So do you still want to have her in your life? Im guessing no for certain reasons. But if you do than she should be happy. It probabaly is that she doesn't want to let go. You miss her and her 2 boys, so do you still want to keep in contact with her?
D-Lish Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 I doubt she actually hates you P. There is often a fine line bewteen the passion of love and hate.... I'd be willing to bet that she is still holding on by keeping in contact- even if she doesn't realize this consciously. Have you thought about blocking and deleting her? Or are you holding on a bit too? D
Author panzer6 Posted December 15, 2006 Author Posted December 15, 2006 I have deleted her but she still keeps my number. It's not that I hate her, I just want the hurt to stop. Yes I miss her and maybe I am holding on a little. This really sucks. I don't see any reason for us to be enemies. I wish I could forget her but it seems so hard. We really fell hard for each other. I guess she is holding on too but I don't know what she wants from me. She wont really talk to me. AAAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHH!!!!!!!!
demilde Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 Think it is all too easy to read things into certain actions that arn't there. some people just don't like deleting stuff like that. I got an email from my ex the other day and instead of a new email she used a reply to an unrelated email I sent a few weeks back. she always tidies her inbox, so why keep the original email? Being rational about it is quite possibly because she has been too busy and forgot to delete it. from that action I don't read that she wants me, but I can see how easy it is to make up some thoughts that would only end up confusing the mind.
Author panzer6 Posted December 15, 2006 Author Posted December 15, 2006 I agree with you demilde, but in the past I have seen her tell friends that were close to her to get lost and the first thing she does is delete their phone numbers. She seems to be one of those people that likes to burn bridges. But in my case she doesn't seem willing or able to let go of me. I guess I should try and talk to her and see if we can cut through the crap and get to the core of the issue.
Guest Posted December 15, 2006 Posted December 15, 2006 MY 2 CENTS and a question. how do u know she still has your phone number? do u have magically powers that tell u this? if yes, maybe you should use them to have her call u and explain this - lol. personally, it would be great getting a call from my ex. in fact, i would have called or dropped by weeks ago if i could but i can not and she knows the reasons for that so any first contact rests with her. am i gonna die if she never does that - nope, that's silly. i am in a place where something like a normal conversation can take place without the past being discussed - totally! is she? no idea. all i can do is what i have been doing - focussing on the things i need to do for myself and if she calls, great, if not, no biggie.
bubbalump Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 MY 2 CENTS and a question. how do u know she still has your phone number? do u have magically powers that tell u this? if yes, maybe you should use them to have her call u and explain this - lol. . Shes texting him.
Guest Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 u mean she is texting him and telling him these things? via email? gawd, text and email was one way my ex gf and i ruin things - never knew what was really being said. next, time i will avoid it like my life depended on it. well, i think that sounds promising for them both - sending positive vibes
Author panzer6 Posted December 16, 2006 Author Posted December 16, 2006 My ex and I would have arguments via text messaging! I tell you I have never hated something so much as texting. The meaning of what you are trying to say is so easily lost or misunderstood. It makes my skin crawl when I get a text message now. I'm just going to tell her to delete my number and get lost. I'm so tired of her passive-aggressive BS. She needs to learn a hard lesson. Like I said before she has done this to other guys so it is obviously a pattern of hers. I don't hate her, I just feel bad for her.
Author panzer6 Posted December 16, 2006 Author Posted December 16, 2006 She dumped me, said i didn't show my feelings. Then she says that because the sex was so good that we should continue to sleep together. This went on for 9 months, then she had a meltdown and told me to never call her again. This lasted for 3 months and then she calls and acts like nothing happened!! Now she texts me all kinds of stupid messages. If she doesn't want me or love me why does she hang on?
dr strangelove Posted December 16, 2006 Posted December 16, 2006 I have kind of a similar situation You should try to find a way to difuse her, when she angry. You can try changing the subject, making a joke etc If you are going to tell her to get lost ponder that decision wisely.. that is one of the last phrases I said to my ex and that was the last straw.
westernxer Posted December 17, 2006 Posted December 17, 2006 You hang out with your ex? Then you get what you deserve.
Author panzer6 Posted December 17, 2006 Author Posted December 17, 2006 I know, I probably deserve all the grief I have had lately. Either way I just want it to stop. She is probably just being a bitch to me to make me so mad that I tell her where to go and then she wont have to take any responsibility for the end of the relationship. She's wacko!!!
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