JamesM Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 Excellent attitude....and a very good response. I think it is great that you called the ex and put the guy on the spot. I am sure he had some story ready for the ex as to why he was coming to her...blah, blah, blah. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JazzyFox Posted January 10, 2007 Author Share Posted January 10, 2007 Well, some of the wood was chopped. I had a great night sleep, alone in my bed. And I drove him to the airport this morning, on his way to Phoenix (we shared the cost of his ticket, him with cash, me with airmiles which I have in abundance). But the ex doesn't want to see him, so he'll probably be boarding an earlier flight to Israel. He will be in airports and in planes for the next 48 hours. He's gone. P.S. I told him about his imaginary friend. He was in shock, and we both had a good laugh. He was still in shock this morning. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JazzyFox Posted January 15, 2007 Author Share Posted January 15, 2007 So, my curiosity killed the cat. I called him yesterday to see if he was in Phoenix or Israel. We had a nice friendly conversation, wishing each other well, nothing more ... He's in Phoenix of course, she took him back. Interestingly enough, she had him call me back a few hours later to tell me that it was over, that he was going to start afresh with her, and there would be no more phone calls, no more emails, ... she even checked to see if he was talking to me, by taking the phone. When he told me that, I just laughed. He said it wasn't funny. I said, "on the contrary, it's very funny ... I suppose she is making you tell me this." Well, I had a date lined up for this week, but I realize that it's not quite over, as I'm afraid of a rejection. I cancelled the date. Oh, wise ones, what should I do ... Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Entertaining reading. Sorry, I do know it's your life (but you chose to share it, haha). Oh, wise ones, what should I do ... Chop some wood? PS: I hate discrimination, so I ignored your "wise ones" comment. Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Two words...begin dating...with a big BUT... I think it is advisable at this point to find out why you were attracted to him, so that you can look for key words in conversations and actions that indicate if the guy you are with will be another one like him. Sorry long sentence. It would be nice if we had a thread which lists signs that this is the guy you want to avoid. Maybe some "wise women" here can begin listing such signs. Link to post Share on other sites
magichands Posted January 15, 2007 Share Posted January 15, 2007 Two words...begin dating...with a big BUT... JamesM makes some great points. I'm not sure that eating yourself into a juicy pear shape is the right strategy, though. Link to post Share on other sites
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