Trialbyfire Posted December 18, 2006 Share Posted December 18, 2006 Same thing here, kissing is at the top of my list of the best things in life. D'oh! I think the original posts was referring to family members though. lol, no not family members, friends. I'm wondering if people who do the FWB, have it right. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rooster_DAR Posted December 18, 2006 Author Share Posted December 18, 2006 lol, no not family members, friends. I'm wondering if people who do the FWB, have it right. I think so. Link to post Share on other sites
orangehose Posted January 5, 2007 Share Posted January 5, 2007 Since it's brought back to the original point, no, relationships are not worth the hassle. Better to find someone or many someones to meet your physical needs and then have friends to meet your emotional needs. Well, I'm female and think this setup would be pretty much ideal. It's not just women who are needy or need constant "effort" in a relationship... If your guy needs a lot of nurturing / mothering, that can be a big energy drain too... The other issue is that these annoying primeval feelings get stirred up in a relationship that left alone outside of it. Self-doubt, jealousy, fear and other neurotic tendencies can get dredged up somehow, and they usually don't with friendships. I dunno if they're worth it; unfortunately, we seem to be wired to seek them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rooster_DAR Posted January 6, 2007 Author Share Posted January 6, 2007 Well, I'm female and think this setup would be pretty much ideal. It's not just women who are needy or need constant "effort" in a relationship... If your guy needs a lot of nurturing / mothering, that can be a big energy drain too... The other issue is that these annoying primeval feelings get stirred up in a relationship that left alone outside of it. Self-doubt, jealousy, fear and other neurotic tendencies can get dredged up somehow, and they usually don't with friendships. I dunno if they're worth it; unfortunately, we seem to be wired to seek them. Yeah, it would seem that way. Link to post Share on other sites
cutegirl Posted January 10, 2007 Share Posted January 10, 2007 No. All a girl needs is a vibrator. And some good porn. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted January 10, 2007 Share Posted January 10, 2007 This is a question I often ask myself. Would it now just be much easier being comfortable with yourself and not even entering a partnership at all, it's just too much **cking hassle and it sucks when it's over. If you want children, why the hell not just adopt a child, there are enough frikin people in the word the way it is, just pick from the herd that's already available and stop the human overpopulation. D'oh! Okay I'm through venting, carry on. Honestly, I don't know if this is meant to be a joke, but I suppose I am one of the people that takes this seriously. I agree 100% The best remedy I find for the "hassle" is being in love first. This may sound a tad bizarre but, Love is a great thing when it is found naturally, it should not be forced. You shouldn't have to "hook-up", go on blind dates or be set up. I believe TRUE love stems from friendship first ALWAYS. Analyze that person as a friend first and you will know if you are compatible. Relationships really are such a hassle you should only be giving such effort to someone you truly, naturally love. I bet 90% of you have been in relationships where it was simply based on extreme attraction, or liking a person, but you weren't in love at all- would you give your life for them? Do you truly understand how your other half thinks? Relationships that lack love usually either end in disaster or continue on with grief and pent up annoyance that leads to violence, cheating, cut off penises and distributed home sex movies. Don't you think you would regret the hassle you went through for a relationship more if you knew you weren't in love with that person rather than if you had entered it head over heels? I bet if you were in love FIRST you wouldn't feel quite as bad about the extra bull**** that comes along with a relationship upon entering one. Link to post Share on other sites
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