Guest Posted December 18, 2006 Share Posted December 18, 2006 Anyone ever been through a really nasty ugly divorce, spending thousands of dollars on attorneys only to want it not to end and give it another go? Seriously, I am sitting here thinking what fools we are. He is my second husband and yes, we had tons of issues due to blending two families together. I movied out of the family home with my adult son, 19 and my daugher, 16. HUGE regrets on my part for leaving my home but couldn't take his sons disprectful behavior towards me any longer. Gone is a lifestyle I grew accustomed to having. Gone is my comfort zone. I don't want to start over. I'm too old -- 47 so maybe not that old but the thought of having to start over is not appealing to me. He now has a girfriend. Lovely for him. After me making a life altering decision of leaving and him telling me not to give up or quit and that I will always be the love of his life, he seems to be moving on quite nicely. He looked up a girl he knew from high school on one of those high sites after me being out of the house for three weeks. That sucks but I guess I asked for it. Everyone tells me I can do better, blah, blah, blah. I'm still grieving for my marriage so I'm not interested. I don't how he can move on so easily while I can't. It just doesn't make sense. So back to my question -- anyone ever give it another go in the midst of divorcing and have a successful outcome? I wouldn't even know how or when to approach him. Link to post Share on other sites
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