Cub Posted December 19, 2006 Share Posted December 19, 2006 I've been thinking about the whole second chances thing and I realized that so far all we've been able to do is guess. It seems to me that if, instead of just speculating about what would happen if X was done in the hopes of achieveing Y, we should share some stories from the dumper's end. By this I mean it would be cool if some of yall would comment on relationships that you ended and the actions your exes took and how effective they were. I, as a first example, remember breaking up with a girl because we were goin nowhere. We never went out, our conversations were beginning to loop like a bad record and her friends had me fed up with the whole thing. So I dropped her. She didn't do much of anything besides dissapear, though it didn't really bother me because I had already lost all of my feelings for her. A few months later she was with one of my best friends and I was with one of hers... haven't talked to her since. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 19, 2006 Share Posted December 19, 2006 i never saw getting back together as a second chance because i just thought we were doing the work needed to repair things and i didn't see us having to play games and tease and test each other - i assumed we would both recognize the massive task completed and jump all over each other have the type of sexromp one does once doing that for each other [i would have exhausted her completely - wink] and being apart for so long and then plan our future and picking out rings and sleeping under the christmas tree - boi was i way off the mark i have no idea what the ex wanted to accomplish with nc - all i can go on is what i know - silence so, i guess i will never know - that's ok Link to post Share on other sites
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