screwed if you do screwed if you don't

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So I have this pain... It's called a wacko sister. You can never win with her. I don't know how to say this nicely but she is the spawn of evil.

So I invite her to my wedding because she is my sister and that is what sisters do and I don't receive my pre paid rsvp back. So I call once the rsvp is late and she acts like no big deal. "Oops, I don't know what I did with it" Then she gets in this whole "I don't know if I am going to stay, I am not really welcomed and neither is my S/O" So I have to reassure her and that her and S/O can come to the wedding and if they feel more comfortable they can sit with my life long friends. "Cool!"

 

So everything was solved right? Wrong! The day of my wedding at the table with my friends she ask them "So who did you upset to get stuck sitting with the outcast?" OMG are you serious? So I let it go didn't say anything to her. Thankfully I have good friends that know how to smile and nod and were loyal enough to tell me about all the awful things that they learned about everyone in the room that they didn't know thanks to my sister, the "victim"

 

However just recently I found out that she is going around telling people that she is mad at me because I didn't invite her to the rehersal dinner. I DIDN'T EVEN KNOW WHERE MY REHERSAL DINNER WAS AT! I was having an out of town wedding and my mother planned the dinner I just followed everyone.

 

She will find the dirty past of anyone and then she spreads it around. She talks bad about the entire family and then when people don't want to talk to her she plays the victim to strangers. "Oh have no family, they are awful to me, blah blah blah"

 

You can't win with her. If you try to be the better person and try to keep in contact. She screws you over. If you don't keep in contact then she plays the sad black sheep that no one loves.

 

When is enough enough?