If U Asked This Would It Be Wrong To Expect A Yes Or No

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IF I ASKED MY EX TO TRY AGAIN - IS IT WRONG TO EXPECT A YES OR NO?

 

SAY I SAID RIGHT NOW - THERE WAS NO TIME LIMIT TO WHEN BUT A YES OR NO WOULD BE A START - IF U WERE MY EX WOULD U NOT FEEL A RESPONSE WAS RESPECTFUL?

 

This is a very complicated question because every relationship is unique. I do believe it can be rekindled as long as each partner is willing to work at it. It will take alot of patience. My sugestion is that if she is willing to work on the relationship then both of you need to evaluate where your life is heading physically, spiritually, financially, intimately and as a family. Second can the trust be re-established?

 

Most relationships either fail due to trust problems and/or apathy in the first five areas I had said to evaluate. We take one another for granted and ignore the warning signs until it is too late. If there is hope then both of you have to come to terms to where your goals and priorities lie. Self-pity will have no place and only sabotage your efforts. It is going to come down to listening to what her needs are and be willing to make the sacrifices. It is a matter of getting out of your comfort zone and be willing to do the things that make you feel awkward. It will take the little things that show you not only love and care for her but you are also willing to be her help mate.