Should I tell

[GOT_A_PROBLEM]

LMAO:lmao: Looks like we've hit a raw nerve. Why with all the obscenties?

We may not know you personally and frankly wouldn't care to.

But your post factually and truly says it all:

Must be nice and comforting for you to have the pathetic loser of a man servicing your mouth like a petrol/gas station.

 

After a few weeks is that all you can say! Did you really think that you would get the big thumbs up?

 

(Oh please you need to come better than that)

 

 

i can come up with better but why waste my time on someone who i dont give a **** about

[lorr]

i can come up with better but why waste my time on someone who i dont give a **** about

 

My point exactly why waste your time on an arsehole loser bloke who doesn't mind using you and your mouth for his convenience.

 

About time that you "saw the light"

[Kinger25]

GAP, You really are all mouth (no pun intented) tell his wife if you want to, but dont be a wimp and hide your identity. Tell her everything, including who you are and what you have been doing with her husband for the past year or so. I fancy hearing about it once you've opened this can of worms. He's going to fire you straight out the door and his wife's going to smash your teeth in. What a pleasant life you lead.

[Raylene]

Sounds like you have already made up your mind what you are going to do. But what really struck me about your post is your saying the two of you have never had actual sexual intercourse, but you give him oral, with him only doing something to satisfy you three times. This relationship is all about HIM and his satisfaction, isn't it? My take on why he just accepts bj's is because he feels he is less likely to get a STD this way and take it home to his "psycho" wife, with whom he DOES have sexual intercourse. And he flirts with others in front of you, although he supposedly loves you. Well, why shouldn't he? You are already accepting crappy behavior and begging for more! If you do end up landing him you'll just become the next "psycho" he talks about while he is getting his bj's from all the other women. But more likely scenerio if you succeed in breaking up his marriage, is that he will move on to another "real" girlfriend and leave you in the dust. Actually if I were the wife, I would thank you for letting me know so I could get the scumbag out of my life and hand him over to you fulltime, along with my psycho title. Of course he returned the I love you comment. What'd you think he ws gonna say, "I'm just using the hell out of you for MY satisfaction, never mind yours, but how bout keepin' on giving me those free bj's anyhow. Far less risky than a hooker."

[Sup]

if this is something directed my way or not?

 

 

 

 

 

Hello all-

 

I have never been a member of a forum until now. I have a story to tell and am looking for advice because I am lost and bitter and heart broken.

 

I seperated from my wife of 11 years almost a year ago. Due to her lack of common sense, she got herself into a bit of a legal snag. To make a long story short we can not be divorced until her legal issues are solved. My story is not about her however.

 

I met someone who became my best friend and eventually my lover. I now know that I have never truly been in love before due to the way I feel for her. I have given her everything I can and do everything I can for her. We moved in together 8 months ago and fell in love. We talked about marriage and are going to get married as soon as ex's legal problems were over. I so want to be her husband and take care of her and love her forever.

 

I made a commitment to her and she to me. I have never cheated on a girl friend or wife. I am one of the last faithful men or so I am told.

 

In October, we had a fight. She went to a party that night and ended up F'ing an ex boyfriend. I asked her if she had cheated on me the next day and several times after and she said no. I thought everything was OK. Everything was absolutely wonderful after we sat and talked things over.

 

Two weeks ago she called me from work to tell me she was pregnant, I was shocked as I am almost incapable of having children and she has had problems with her system too. We have had unprotected sex for a year. I was also happy though because I love her dearly and there is no one I would rather have a child with but her. She then proceeded to ask me how much I loved her and I replied "more than anything in the whole world". She told me that there was a possibility that the child was not mine!

 

**** hit the fan, I puked I was so torn inside. I have never had anyone kill me inside the way she did. I truly have a broken heart. She left for a day while I cooled down. All I wanted from her was the name of the F'ker that she did this with but she will not tell me. Why is she protecting him?

 

It turns out the child is mine. She took a morning after pill after being with this guy and jump started her cycle somehow. My 3 percent chance of getting a woman pregnant became 100%!

 

She told me that when we had the fight she thought it was over?? She went to a party, drank a bit, called this guy up, went to a bar with him, went back to the party with him and proceeded to be unfaithful to me. She not only bit the hand that feeds her, she tore it off and beat me to death with it!

 

She lied about it and continued to live under my roof and sleep with me. I am totally nuts about all of this! I can't sleep and I hardly eat. I told her I forgive her. I do forgive her because she is the mother of my child.

 

What I want to know is:

 

How do I ever trust her again?

How do I get rid of the hate and bitterness inside of me?

How do I marry her and raise a family with her when I think she will just go out and do this again someday?

How do I mend a shattered heart?

 

I am dying inside and do not know what to do about it. I would like to find this other guy and vent a little rage on him if you know what I mean. I think that would help a lot.

 

Please help me if you can?

 

 

If she lied to you before, what's stopping her now from lying to you again? Get a DNA test on the baby when the baby's born.