reprise13 Posted December 19, 2006 Share Posted December 19, 2006 So I've been dating this girl for a while, and recently I get the feeling she only hangs out with me because I'm the only one around. I mean we do have a good time when we are with eachother, she says she's in love with me...but the majority, if not all, of her friends have moved away right before we started dating. Lately I feel like she doesn't ask me to hang out, but says things along the lines of "Will you come with me to the show?", which is different then "What are you doing tomorrow night, do you want to hang out?". I just started to get the vibe that she only wants me to go so she's not by herself...I guess I'm questioning whether or not she really wants to hang out with me. This is just getting me confused as I'm not sure what her motives are...thoughts?? Reprise Link to post Share on other sites
melodymatters Posted December 19, 2006 Share Posted December 19, 2006 Well, in this instance, I would simply tell the other person how I felt (what you posted here, calmly and non judgementally) and see what she says. I'm sure her response and reactions will tell you more than what I or anyone else here can ! Good Luck ! Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 What does she say when you ask her to just hang out? Do the two of you talk a lot when you're together? Link to post Share on other sites
Author reprise13 Posted December 20, 2006 Author Share Posted December 20, 2006 What does she say when you ask her to just hang out? Do the two of you talk a lot when you're together? Well, if I ask her to hang out with me....she does just that. We used to talk a lot when we went on dates, but now that we are getting comfortable in the relationship, conversation has decreased somewhat. We did have a pretty bad date last friday when we went out to dinner...not much was said. However, we went out on another the following day and it seemed things picked up a great deal and they were back to normal. Is this not a good thing? Why do you ask this? Thanks for the help people... Reprise Link to post Share on other sites
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