ahsumgurl909 Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 Okay my BF has cheated several times but has been totally trying to be committed to me. Hes been around me most of the time everyday and has been a total sweetheart. He even took me to work with him out of town the other night (which I found romantic). While I was sitting in his truck watching him work at 3 in the morning I started taking pictures with his cell phone. Then he went inside and I looked at his phone log and on our way out of town I had asked him if he had gotten any calls from his ex? He said yeah but he didnt answer. But his phone told a different story. I didnt say anything until the following morning and he denied it and wouldnt let me show him his phone log to prove it. Anyway I just let it go. Well last night he and I were suppose to spend the night together. And when he showed up he said he had to work at the beach in the morning and jsut wanted to go home and sleep. I got an awful feeling in my stomach and told him how I felt. And while we were sitting there she called his cell and I told him to answer it and he wouldnt. Needless to say he didnt go to work this morning and called me at 10:49 (CHECK OUT TIME). I am not stupd by all means but I think he was with her. Should I tell him to come clean or get out when he gets here or just let it go? please answer I need to know asap Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 I think deep down you know what you need to do. He is NOT being honest with you, he's lying about the cell calls and where he's been. He will deny it for as long as he can, making you out to be the crazy one. HE IS CHEATING ON YOU. Maybe not physically, but definately he's doing something he shouldn't be doing with her. Link to post Share on other sites
guin_girl Posted December 20, 2006 Share Posted December 20, 2006 You don't need him to "come clean" for something you already know. I have been on the end of a habitual cheater (had an entire relationship with someone else for the entire 2.5 years that I knew nothing about when we were together, but that's a whole nother post). Even though he "confessed", there was no vindication, he didn't confess on his own, and only told me a limited amount as it was. Nothing he could say would change his actions or explain why he did what he did. You need to take care of you... let him go and get yourself back. Link to post Share on other sites
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