Guest Posted December 22, 2006 Share Posted December 22, 2006 hi everyone some much needed advice and opinions, i have been with my partner for 10 years two children, i use to love him now im not so sure, this has been like a process, i didnt just wake up and realise i didnt love him. Anyway he has done a few things in the past cheated on me when we were just out of school, that heart me deeply, he said sorry but i never truely felt he knew how much he hurt me, there has been little times when i have thoought that if he could get away with it he would cheat on me again, but i am to clever and he knows that. All that aside he tells me he loves me cooks for me would do almost anything for me, trys to show me emotion and i just push him away, i dont want to have sex, mainly because i just dont feel like it and when he drinks alcohol it repulses me,i hate alcohol, but he enjoys it, im only 30 he 32, but i find that over the last year he lacks motivation, im trying to build a career and provide for my children, he has no drive for advancment in career i do,i constantly ngging when things he does are not done right, i feel like a bitch, and i dont know why, how do you know if you love someone? ive been with this guy for 10 years i should know, just 2 months ago, we had a good couple of days i felt like being effectionate towards him, i dont know why i go through stages with him, where i think i love him then all of a sudden i think i wouldnt look twice at him if i didnt know him, this is driving me crazy, any suggestions? Link to post Share on other sites
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