CinderellaElla Posted December 22, 2006 Share Posted December 22, 2006 I'm 17 and so is he and we are well in high school. We don't hangout alot, it's only once in a long while unexpectedly, as some activities we are in are the same. Anyways, i like this guy alot, and i've liked him since the day i hated him. I know that sounds very odd, but I didnt like him at the beginning until he started talking more and i've known him now for 3 years. We are both grade 11 students, and last year in grade 10 i asked him if he could like me as more than a friend and he said no..why? and of course i wasnt that happy because come on why would a person ask that question? right. and then as now grade 11 came, we hungout alittle in the summer as he friend told him i was at his house and then he showed up. And now, we have the same thing happening all the time, he stares at me at school, and watches and then eventually i'll look over at him, and this is a daily thing. And it drives me crazy because i dont know what to do because I think oh he doesnt like me, but then theres something in my gut telling me he does. And my friends think he does as well. I'm scared to ask him again...and I know he wouldnt tell me anything even if I asked him. Anyways thanks, and any advice would be greatly appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 22, 2006 Share Posted December 22, 2006 If he is staring at you in class he definitely likes you. Also him coming over to his friends house when he knew you were there is also an indication that he likes you. Perhaps over the summer he looked at you differently because you have probably matured more since the 10th grade. I would smile sweetly at him the next time he is staring at you in class and then look away quickly. This will let him know you see him and you like it but you're not giving too much. I guarantee you this will work. Does he have a girlfriend? I hope not for your sake. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CinderellaElla Posted December 27, 2006 Author Share Posted December 27, 2006 Thanks for the advice, and yes he is single. The funny thing is he tells me to stay single, but if he liked me wouldnt he tell me? i know we dont have the same friends..certain opnes, but it doesnt mean things cant workout. The other day his friend, the one that i never talk to, pretended to be him on emial..well when i asked the guy i like why he said those things, he said he didnt and that he respects me way more than that. I do trust him, but it's like his friend doesnt want me near him. My friends think that his friend also likes me, because the guys i hanged out with in the summer all do, and they are all friends. But why me?!?! Do you think that i could get this guy? That's really what i want to know, because even though i want to hate him, i cant. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 Did you ask him why his friend emailed you those things? I don't know why he isn't telling you he likes you straight out - maybe it's because he's afraid to put his feelings out there too fast and neither should you. I don't know what was said in that email to you but if the content was offensive to you find out who really sent that email and why. Maybe his friend did send it and you guy was there with him. If you like him wait for him to pursue you. Always look great and smile sweetly but don't be available for him. Guys love a chase. Link to post Share on other sites
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