Time to stop. Seriously.

[Vanquish]

So i dunno if any of you remember me, but about 4 months ago i was devastated because my first true love left me, crushed me after she said she would never hurt me yadda yadda. Needless to say i was a wreck for awhile, but then i met a new girl and things have been beyond excellent. NC was initiated with the ex and i only ever saw her at her birthday about a week after she broke up with me. Then nothing, maybe once i saw her at the store. Well somethign happened last night. I get a call, well 1 ring from a number that i recognized, it was the ex. The one that wouldn't talk to me, dumped me, and pretty much hated me. Why she was calling i dunno, possibly just hit the wrong contact on her phone. But damnit why do they play these games? Just when you think you are home free. I just wish now she would take me out of her contacts and never think/talk to me again. It was my fault that i spent time with her in the hospital but i was being a good person. Now its backfiring and i think shes having second thoughts or wants to see me. Which wont' happen becuase i've moved on and so had she(i thought) with someone that she lied to me about. So i think its time for her to stop. I had to get that out of my system, going from two extremes is hard enough.

[Guest]

errr i think u're letting it get to you

 

when u really moved on...nothing will bother you

 

dont take it seriously...just leave it...if she contacts u again WITHOUT JUST ONE RING...then maybe call her back and see what is her deal

 

seems like uve moved on quite well...stay like that

 

dont be sucked into her games...she cheated on you...shes in the past and stay in the past

 

I feel your pain from 4 months ago...my first true love ****ed me over witha guy i introduced her too...one of my supposed "homeboys" that lied to me

....the pain is so bad..i dont know why i still cling to her like i do..i wake up thinking about it everyday...but thats another story

 

for you stay away from that cheatin ho

[Lowcountryman]

Well sometimes I wish I had your problem. I can't seem to get my ex gf to respond to me. I know I need to move on but with my current situation it's pretty difficult. If you're over her just come clean and tell her that your over her and tell her to move on and quit calling you. But I do wake up sometimes hoping to see her number come across my phone. I know one day I'll see it and say what does she want, right now I'd be too excited to think.