Ex-girlfriend keeps checking my myspace account!! Why

[Lowcountryman]

She broke up with me over 4 months ago yet she keeps checking my myspace account and I know because I have a counter on it that logs the ip addresses. I've lost some weight since she's last seen me. What would be the reason for that if she doesn't care anymore? I think she's seing someone right now but still checks in on me...this is driving me crazy just wondering what is she looking for or at.

[pennyjosix]

she probably just wants to keep tabs on you. people don't completely get over there ex when they break up and supposedly move on. maybe she's hoping you aren't moving on with your life. i have a friend that his ex still checks his myspace and deletes people from his friend list and what not. It's weird.

[Lowcountryman]

You ought to tell your friend to change his password so she can't delete his friends, that's just wierd that he lets her do that. The funny part is, is that she's not on my friend list so she has to check someone elses page to get to mine. So you think, even though she's seing someone, that she still hasn't gotten over breaking up w/me? I want to believe that she'll call sometime but I just need to forget it and move on.

[pennyjosix]

oh trust me.. i've told him. like i said, it's just weird. she probably just wants to keep tabs on you.

[Guest]

gawd, i haven't check the band thang on myspace in over 100 years - u mean someone actually goes there?

 

hey as for passwords and stuff like that i want her to have them '

my gf can look into anything part of my life

 

and i do that because one day she will stop and trust me and become my wife

 

but for now i know nothing about what she is doing and she knows everything about me - and that's ok

 

whatever it takes man

 

so open the blue box, there wine in there for u, and chocolates and flowers burthday presents and christmas ones too

[WhiteKnight]

Well to share my own view. I would just change all passwords, contact details and when it comes down to my personal things like 'myspace' for example, I would change the permissions to make her not view it.

 

To be honest, any of my ex-gfs or partners that had left me, truly don't deserve to see anything or wonder how am I progressing.

 

Them caring for you is fine in my opinion but there are certain things they can care for anyways, depending on how much they value the friendship. If you don't stay in contact, well I guess the friendship has drifted apart.

 

In the end the truth is that both sides were hurt and it would be best to keep things down to a minimum before any friendships were to survive with your ex partner if you choose that track.

[CosmoBella]

Lowcountryman,

I agree with the other posts. Your ex checks your myspace to see what you're up to. Because maybe thats the one way she has to know about you and your current activities. You can block your profile if you dont want her to view it.

IMO- I check my ex's myspace because I still care, and I wonder if he's in a new relationship and what he is up to.

[guin_girl]

sometimes I check on my ex for morbid curiosity. I don't want him back, he absolutely devastated me, he had a completely separate life from me that I had no clue about. But for some reason, I will look at his profile and see if he is even a shadow of the person he presented to me. I think I'm just trying to find out who it was that I wasted 2.5 years of my life on.

[Cub]

If she wanted to get in touch with you, she would do it. Move on dood, you're reading too much into this and causing yourself more stress than necissary.