hrtbroken99 Posted December 23, 2006 Share Posted December 23, 2006 My bf and I broke up a few wks ago. He was my first everything-from the man I slept with, fell in love with, had the longest relationship with (2.5yrs). We currently are very far from one another and I think the distance played the biggest role. He did it over the phone-which really hurt me. It was some what mutual (although he wanted it more than me) we are also on two different paths career, school etc. I think he also wanted to still "have his fun." I have not called him at all or made any sort of contact. It has been really hard for me. A day does not go with out me crying for him,thinking about him, etc. I've been going to Church more hoping that God will make me stronger. I still love him and care deeply about him. He mentioned when breaking up that we could still be friends if I wanted too and he'd call me. I didn't say anything at that moment. I haven't heard from him, but have a feeling I might around xmas. I don't know what to do, I am devasted, depressed, sad, all the words that make you feel like not doing anything. I feel like I have lost one of the most important people in my life. I want him back. I want to send him a xmas card and I have been reading other posts and how its not a good idea to do so because what f he doesnt reply? If the breakup is mutual is there any chance of us getting back together? Should I send him a xmas card or b-day card? I am so confused and don't know what to do. I am not ready to have him out of my life Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 23, 2006 Share Posted December 23, 2006 I DON'T THINK U SHOULD RELY ON THIS GUY FOR YER HAPPINESS - LOL teasing seriously regarding christmas its probably too late for mail delivery and as a man i know i would prefer just a hug and kiss Link to post Share on other sites
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