Laineybbbk Posted December 23, 2006 Share Posted December 23, 2006 Hi guys! Long term lurker, first time poster. Through a drought of a love life, I've finally got a tricky situation on my hands. Earlier this year, through a friend I met Ricky. This incredibly witty, creative, party-animal type guy. Something about him caught my eye. I didn't know what it was. As time progressed, we eventually started talking more. Myspace messages. Texts. A few phonecalls. Eventually giving into longer phone calls and msn conversations. We always ran into each other at the same parties, so we'd hang out with each other. Yada, yada, yada - Ricky eventually started asking me out. Movies, beers, dancing, etc. During the course of our unofficial dates we never kissed nor did he open himself up to be kissed - you know at the end of dates. Weird. But he'd always follow-up the next day or even ask me out again the day after. And whenever something went wrong (long story) he's apologize profusely even though the incidents weren't his fault. We eventually fell out of these unofficial dates pattern. But oddly after two weeks or so, he started visiting me at work frequently. He's been doing it about once a week now. Recently, he approached me to collab on a project he's been mulling over. For the first time in a month or so, we got together, had a great time. But during that month, my attention has started to fade. If he's interested he'd atleast put himself in a position to be made a move-on, right? And if his behaviour wasn't enough... his profile is now set to "IN A RELATIONSHIP." Now, I have a feeling our friendship is starting to blossom again. I don't know if he likes or has ever liked me and I don't know if he's dating somebody else - he never mentions it, even if I specifically ask "What's New?," etc. What does a girl do?! Link to post Share on other sites
blue16 Posted December 24, 2006 Share Posted December 24, 2006 But during that month, my attention has started to fade. If he's interested he'd atleast put himself in a position to be made a move-on, right? And if his behaviour wasn't enough... his profile is now set to "IN A RELATIONSHIP." Doesn't that say everything you need to know? Move on. Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted December 24, 2006 Share Posted December 24, 2006 Hey Blue, good to see you again.. OP, I've to agree with blue on this one... Even though there are lots of signs that he might be interested, the "in a relationship" in his profile says it all. you could ask him to be sure. you've got nothing to lose anyways. Link to post Share on other sites
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