Black men

[Buttaflyy]

On another note I have been noticing more and more black women who hate black men. A white man is quickly becoming a favorite accessory for professional black women.

I have to say that while this can very well be true for some, it's not for all or even most. Take it from me, I know.

 

**ck off punk. What a lamer!

I'm a WOMAN, you do know that right? I thought your interest was limited to black men only.

 

I didn't read this whole thread, but I'm guessing the answer is curiosity. Isn't that what gets us interested in anyone no matter what race they are.

Somehow, that curiosity is about the black race alot of the time and especially here.

 

I feel that your quote: "Perhaps, blackmen are sexually stronger" is a very racist statement. Why would you care to post about this or ask?

Your question singles only ONE RACE-African Americans. That is racist, period.

Should I have posted that "asian women are more sexually submissive" would it be about women in GENERAL or about ASIAN women? It would be soley about ASIAN women.

If I were to post that white women were sexually strong would it be about women in general or just about white women? It would be soley about white women.

Your post is directed soley towards black men and nothing else, thus racist in intent.

 

Yes, I agree. But then again, I might just be an angry black woman.

 

I still maintain white men are the **it!!!!!

 

:lmao:

UMMMM HMMMMMM. The SH*T eh?

 

It all dates back to slavery. The slavemasters used to break up the families and turn the men and women against each other so they can be more easily controlled. The effects of this brainwashing have been passed on from generation to generation. I notice that carribeans and african immigrants don't have these problems in nearly the same numbers.

True to an extent. As far as the statement about africans and carribeans though, unfortuantely it is untrue.

 

There is book called How to Make a Slave by Willie Lynch that was published as a guide to breaking slaves into submission. It said that destroying the black family was an effective way to break their spirits. These effects have lasted to today because they were passed down. I really am starting to think also that the powers that be are trying the same tactics on society as a whole.

 

Yep, it was a process. And not only were we brainwashed, so where some whites who wouldn't normally have the hateful feelings towards a group because of the color of their skin. We were all effected.

[Woggle]

I don't know about everywhere but I grew up in Brooklyn where there is a large west indian and carribean population and most of them were very family oriented and hardworking.

[alphamale]

I don't know about everywhere but I grew up in Brooklyn where there is a large west indian and carribean population and most of them were very family oriented and hardworking.

agreed WOGGLE....what many americans don't know is if you go to other nations the people of african ancestry are totally normal and mainstream and mingle with society on every level.

 

unfortuantely due to our history many blacks in the US are totally messed up and its really not their fault. I can see why they are so pissed off.

[Buttaflyy]

I don't know about everywhere but I grew up in Brooklyn where there is a large west indian and carribean population and most of them were very family oriented and hardworking.

 

No no, that's not what I meant. Not that they aren't, but so are african americans. I was talking about the Willie Lynch theory and I meant as far as being brainwashed and "ununited" for lack of a better word? But, I'm totally going of topic here, but does this thread have a topic?

[Buttaflyy]

agreed WOGGLE....what many americans don't know is if you go to other nations the people of african ancestry are totally normal and mainstream and mingle with society on every level.

 

unfortuantely due to our history many blacks in the US are totally messed up and its really not their fault. I can see why they are so pissed off.

 

You know this time I'm finding it really hard to ignore your ignorance. But it seems you've been affected by racism just as much. I'm sure you've experienced it too....

Such a shame Alpha. That's what you are.

 

For the record, we black americans aren't "messed up" as you said. Believe me, I do just fine. And I'm only "pissed off" by your ignorance and blatant disrespect.

[Woggle]

This whole society is screwed up probably beyond redemption and it goes beyond any one race.

[alphamale]

For the record, we black americans aren't "messed up" as you said. Believe me, I do just fine. And I'm only "pissed off" by your ignorance and blatant disrespect.

look sister i myself am a minority and have been the target of bigotry and racial hatred. and I also live in Detroit which is one of the most racially screwed up major cities in the US.

 

I stand by my words...

[Buttaflyy]

This whole society is screwed up probably beyond redemption and it goes beyond any one race.

 

Yes, and when racism is considered, everyone is affected by it. In one way or another.

 

I can go into a long conversation about what it is to be a black american, which would entail a long list of different cultural backgrounds, ethnicities, religious beliefs, social classes, etc., and it would all be my own history and background. To myself that is the beauty, and now I realize the wonder of why some are so interested or fascinated (whether negatively or positively) with us. But really, does it matter? I think some would rather just live with the stereotypes and racism. People are comfortable with what they "know".

[Buttaflyy]

look sister i myself am a minority and have been the target of bigotry and racial hatred. and I also live in Detroit which is one of the most racially screwed up major cities in the US.

 

I stand by my words...

 

Listen brother, I KNOW that you too are minority and that's why I stand by mine. But in order for you to be knowledgable about what you speak, you'd have to know every black american now wouldn't you? But that's what stereotypes are my brother, lack of knowledge or in other words, IGNORANCE.

[alphamale]

But in order for you to be knowledgable about what you speak, you'd have to know every black american now wouldn't you?

no I don't...thats like saying I need to know how to build a car before I can drive one.

[Buttaflyy]

no I don't...thats like saying I need to know how to build a car before I can drive one.

 

We're not talking cars, we're talking people. But if you said that all or most car parts in the US were messed up, I'd think you'd need to be a little more knowledgeable about cars before "driving" one?

[princessa]

What about the study about indian men's dycks being tiny

 

http://www.int.iol.co.za/index.php?set_id=14&click_id=117&art_id=qw1165566780903B253

[pricillia]

You guys preference has to do more with the person rather than size

[Rooster_DAR]

We could compare apples to oranges all day long and get nowhere. I think Pricilla is right on, it's all about preference. People in general look more into ones personality and character when choosing a mate, not at how large, small, deep, shallow their organs are and for me race does not matter one bit.

 

Can't we all just get along?

 

LOL

[pricillia]

Yes their will always be the debate with sizem but it coems down to the person and the connection...

 

race, and or color are not going away antime soon...

 

so enjoy it!

[princessa]

We could compare apples to oranges all day long and get nowhere. I think Pricilla is right on, it's all about preference. People in general look more into ones personality and character when choosing a mate, not at how large, small, deep, shallow their organs are and for me race does not matter one bit.

 

Can't we all just get along?

 

LOL

 

No no, you don't get it. There was a STUDY! And it says, that indian men, ARE small! You can agree or disagree with it based on your own scientific studies (if any), but why dismiss it?

 

That's what's wrong with people these days. Everybody is so scared to be called a racist that we're just scared to speak about general trends.

[Buttaflyy]

That's what's wrong with people these days. Everybody is so scared to be called a racist that we're just scared to speak about general trends.

 

I respectfully disagree, the subject of race can be spoken about without being disrespectful. Also, when one group is put under a microscope it's hard not to feel offended. Especially when there are negative comments being made, no matter the scientific research that has been done on the subject.

[pricillia]

No no, you don't get it. There was a STUDY! And it says, that indian men, ARE small! You can agree or disagree with it based on your own scientific studies (if any), but why dismiss it?

 

That's what's wrong with people these days. Everybody is so scared to be called a racist that we're just scared to speak about general trends.

 

 

I am not scared... who the hell cares what the size is, it is the person that matters...

 

So no Indian men for you then...

[peacelove]

Hey,

What ever happened to "It's not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean" ? ? ?

[Dadaal]

I'm not sure where some of you are getting you information from, but it appears very innacurate. Black being bigger is totally false, it's just hyped from a rumor that started long ago. Caucasion men in many cases have larger members than other races, but in general most males have an average length of 6 inches or slightly higher.

 

Informed,

 

My dear faceless friend!! go back to the books and ask this to any doctor - it is a fact that blackmen have the longest and biggest in size. Blackmen usually don't see the difference but doctors know about it.

[scrybe74]

no I don't...thats like saying I need to know how to build a car before I can drive one.

 

You've said some pretty ignorant stuff on here. I Like you. You're funny and I enjoy reading your posts.

 

You speak as if you're an expert on Black men in America and Black Culture in general. Some of the things you've said have some partial truth in them and some are dead wrong. Almost all of what you said can't apply to all Black Americans in this country.

 

I'm speaking as a Black man born and raised in this country from Southern California.

 

Many people (including Black people) in this country tend to link all Black Americans together as one big group. You fail to acknowledge regional differences we have in this country. Blacks in the west are have culture differences than blacks in the Midwest, North and South like most Americans. We have some shared values, religion, cooking, language, slang etc., but many times we have stark differences as well.

 

As far as physical attributes. You fail to consider that our slave ancestors came from many regions, countries, cultures (though most were on the west coast of Africa). Yes there was specific breeding involved in Slavery but it doesn't explain and cover all of our physical attributes. We are as physically different from each other as every other race on this planet. There are blacks who have flat asses, thin lips, noses that aren't flaired, curly, kinky and/or straight hair. Some are dark and others are light. Many have brown eyes but some have green, grey and even blue. Many of our lineage is mixed with american indian, asian, south and central american indian, latino and of course white.

 

Anyway....I'm not so much offended by what you say. More saddened. I grew up in a community that was pretty well blended racially. Everyone dated everyone. I'm not ignorant enough to not believe that there aren't fads instigated by media but I also see that many of us are quick to come up with all sorts of reasons to explain an interracial coupling. Why do we not first simply accept that 2 people meet and like each other. Again...I know people are shallow sometimes. There are people who date by race just like there are people who only like a certain hair color or eye color or income level or religion.

 

Anyway...I also found it amusing that most people on this thread ignore the more thought out and though provoking posts. Maybe they are too boring.

 

To sum it all up....I think almost all of explanations proposed may fit certain situations but they certainly cannot speak for an ENTIRE race of people. That is the racist part of this post. The incredible broad generalizations that exist be they good or bad.

 

Now that some of you know my race I'd hate for you to now generalize me that way.

 

See ya around the Shack!

[burning 4 revenge]

I dont think Alpha is racist at all. He's speaking about generalizations and I think when one talks in generalizations it's a given that they are abstract and not meant to apply to every individual. If we feel ashamed to say what we think, or comment on what we see around us then the conversation becomes censored and weak and meaningless. And what he said about Carribbeans is true -I live in S Florida and the one ethnic group outperforming Cuban-Americans is Jamaican-Americans. I'll try to find a link, but I read that in the Miami Herald last year.

[SmoochieFace]

I dont think Alpha is racist at all. He's speaking about generalizations and I think when one talks in generalizations it's a given that they are abstract and not meant to apply to every individual. If we feel ashamed to say what we think, or comment on what we see around us then the conversation becomes censored and weak and meaningless. And what he said about Carribbeans is true -I live in S Florida and the one ethnic group outperforming Cuban-Americans is Jamaican-Americans. I'll try to find a link, but I read that in the Miami Herald last year.

 

And that's exactly why generalisations are totally useless.

 

Alpha's generalisations are based primarily on inaccurate stereotypes that are propagated by popular culture. The fact that some INDIVIDUALS - and BLACK INDIVIDUALS at that - are coming in here and telling a different story is testimony to the fact that those generalisations are a crock of BS.

[SmoochieFace]

look sister i myself am a minority and have been the target of bigotry and racial hatred. and I also live in Detroit which is one of the most racially screwed up major cities in the US.

 

So what are you doing to change that besides bellyaching about past injustices? Hmmm?

 

The way I see it people who choose to be passive over issues that affect them personally are just as 'screwed up' as those who perpetrate those injustices.

[burning 4 revenge]

So what are you doing to change that besides bellyaching about past injustices? Hmmm?

 

The way I see it people who choose to be passive over issues that affect them personally are just as 'screwed up' as those who perpetrate those injustices.

well what would you suggest? racism is dying and has been for a long time, all you can do is just leave it alone and it will die of natural causes