thecount Posted December 25, 2006 Share Posted December 25, 2006 Hi all, I guess you have to read my past posts in order to appreciate this one, but yesterday on christmas eve. Even though I tried to break it off with her so many times before, and her crying and saying how much she still loves me, and wants to be there forever. Well, She decided it's time to end it. On Christmas Eve. Knowing that my father died christmas day a few year back, she still found it in her heart that this is the best way to end it. why, because bupropion girl thought this is the best thing to do. Last night I just couldn't take it anymore, I was tired of doing the right thing and sit back, and do nothing. "just let it go" Not this time buddy. I spoke with her ex, who is now her current. (He told me so), and I knew this from the get go. I just wanted to hear it from him, I asked him if they did sleep together. He wouldn't answer, all he said was "I've been in your shoes man, just move on". which leads me to think that they did sleep together, but damn it I still do need to hear one of them. Why can't they just say it? She told me they never did. She is what I thought she always was. a piece of S***. I took off of work to help her, I did everything a boyfriend was suppose to do, and because her ex has money, and her health insurance is going up. She thought that she would keep him around just incase she needed money. Can you believe that? She said this. I was amazed at the way she beleives that it's ok to be this way. She said, "My friend does it, why can't I"? "why can't I have it easy too". I told her it's wrong, and you'll resort yourself to being a whore. "you're right she said". I can't do it like that. What would my father think she said. Next day I'm history. So I sent her new boyfriend an intresting picture of me and my ex together. :-) was that wrong? I know it was, but it felt so damn good at the moment. lol.... After all the hurt she caused me, did she think I was just going to lay back and take it again? Is she for real? I'm actually kind of glad it happend. glad that it's over, and I feel guilty about it. Why? Still I miss her, and I don't know why. I told her to take our dog, and I sure miss her more. Link to post Share on other sites
notmakingsense Posted December 25, 2006 Share Posted December 25, 2006 Look at this as an awesome Christmas present... you finally got rid of that loser. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted December 25, 2006 Share Posted December 25, 2006 She is a patheic loser, there are many many of them out there that are shallow like this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author thecount Posted December 26, 2006 Author Share Posted December 26, 2006 It just burns my ass the was she did it. We could have ended this in such a good way, where I could at least have been in friendly terms with her. I don't want to hurt anyone. That's not me, because I wouldn't want anyone to do it to me. She asked for it. She just thought that I would do anything about it. She said she did it, because she loves me, and cares so much about me that she couldn't see me miserble anymore. What nerve. So she makes an ass out of me infront of my family? Where everything was ok. Even my friends were shocked. They said everything was fine, you both looked and sounded so happy with eachother. what the hell went wrong? She's a nut I said. I still do miss that dog though, and I think my cat misses her too. This is the part that really sucks about breaking up. I know that she's pathetic, but I feel more pathetic. It feels like she did it on perpose. Like she had it all planned out. If she did that, it would make her just evil, and right now I just loath the thought that I gave my heart to her. she's young foolish and stupid. The guy she's with now used to hit her, she said it wasn't all the time. WHAT? once is too much, what the hell is she thinking? If that's what she wants, well go right ahead. what can I say. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 26, 2006 Share Posted December 26, 2006 can i ask this one thing? u know my email addy - can we just put this right just this once? MODERATOR'S NOTE: You may not post personal messages, email addresses or other identifying information through the guest post feature. Loveshack members may not do that either. Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author thecount Posted December 26, 2006 Author Share Posted December 26, 2006 whoever guess is, if you know who I am, you have my e-mail as well. ask whatever you want. Link to post Share on other sites
Author thecount Posted December 26, 2006 Author Share Posted December 26, 2006 I ment guest Link to post Share on other sites
stanchain Posted December 26, 2006 Share Posted December 26, 2006 Hey count... damn bro i feel you... after almost 3 years me and my ex broke up like a month and a half ago. Now I am on here sounding weak and things of that nature pining over her.. but the thing about it is that I am very much a no nonsense kinda guy. I mean when it is over it is over. But ever since we broke up she has been saying how she loves me and doesnt want our love to die, and I am the guy she wants to marry and this and that. Well after about 2 weeks of breaking up or so she started kicking it with this guy. Now reading his web site he says they are together... but even in front of him she swears they are not together and they are not having sex. it is just a friend to be around because she does not like to be at her parents house. I would feel so much better if she just said hey.. look we are together and have been together. I just didnt want to tell you because i wanted you to be around just incase. Oh and the kicker to it all.. I am 29, she is 21, and her new friend is only 17 and a frikin bus boy at her job. So trust me bro there is no rhyme or reason as to why women play these games. WHy not just make it easy. you know what some of them dont deserve the love that they recieved from us. it does not make it any easier... but it is the truth.. and your ex... man... same thing goes for me though.. she left me a couple weeks after my father died ( a few years back) and a few weeks before my brother died (a few years back)... unappreciative b--th. gosh I know i sound mad.. and damnit i think i have a right... anyway hope ya are feeling better Link to post Share on other sites
Author thecount Posted December 26, 2006 Author Share Posted December 26, 2006 Last night, at 12:30am She called me. People have been calling me all day to see if I was alright. I just thought it was one of them. To my surpirse, It was her. I had asked her never to contact me again, just e-mail me and let me know what you're going to do with the dog. I don't want to know anything else. She thought that calling me will be better. She told me what she was thinking about the dog, and i still don't know what she's going to do about the dog. I asked her why are you calling me? The real reason I had said. She said I MISS YOU! I needed to hear your voice. I asked her what would her new boyfriend think? She said, we're not together. We never were. i don't know why he's telling you that. She also called me to tell me that she's going to therapy soon to deal with things. she also told me how angry she was that I sent that picture to this other guy, but that she understood why I did it. She said " I had it coming". She is really crazy. I just couldn't believe that she just had to call me. Then one of the things she said was. She might put the dog to sleep. The dog is only 11 months old. She loves that dog, and she's going to put it to sleep? I think that's just a ploy for me to take that dog back, because she doesn't want the responsibility of taken care of someone else. (selfish mode) I'm trying to make sense of that phone call. In the end of the convo she said I Miss you, I really do miss you... All I said was yeah, have a good night. Anyone have any ideas as to why this phone call even happend? And what the hell is wrong with me listening to her **** for over 2hrs? maybe theres something wrong with me. Link to post Share on other sites
notmakingsense Posted December 26, 2006 Share Posted December 26, 2006 She's regretting her decision to dump you and she's reaching out to see if you still have feelilng for her, and if she can reel you back in. I don't know the whole history of this relationship, but just make sure this isn't just a repeating pattern of getting back together and breaking up again. If you still have feelings for her, make sure she is able to offer you stability, and that there is a chance for a long term relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
freckles73 Posted December 26, 2006 Share Posted December 26, 2006 Grueling. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted December 26, 2006 Share Posted December 26, 2006 You think she'd actually put the dog down? Even the suggestion of it, whatever her motives.... She's evil. Count, in a situation like yours- you really have to sever the ties and walk away (run away). She is such bad news, and she's only going to make you miserable. All the cheating, lies, manipulations, insensitivity... what is left of her for you to love? Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted December 26, 2006 Share Posted December 26, 2006 You think she'd actually put the dog down? Even the suggestion of it, whatever her motives.... She's evil. Count, in a situation like yours- you really have to sever the ties and walk away (run away). She is such bad news, and she's only going to make you miserable. All the cheating, lies, manipulations, insensitivity... what is left of her for you to love? God, this sounds all too familiar. Link to post Share on other sites
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