yousaveme Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 Thanks puddle.... hmmm kind of funny. This sounds like yousaveme's mm's wife. Maybe you should do a search on yousaveme's posts. hmmm NF: that was just plain ugly of you! You may have no respect for certain posters but it would behoove you to have more respect for yourself! Do you have so much time as to just cause problems for others? Is that what life is about for you? I certainly hope not... Link to post Share on other sites
peacelove Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I told you NoForgiveness is doing this again. Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 Hey Buttaflyy....I checked back to a previous thread "My friend and her husband"....it was around Dec 7th, so is priddy recent....it'll give understanding as to the reaction from the ladies.... Hey Pureinheart. Either way, it's pretty rude and disrespectful. After this we'll have a thread about how we all need to get along. Where does it stop? Someone needs to act like an adult here. BTW, I remember that thread too. Link to post Share on other sites
IfWishesWereHorses Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I nominate you Butafly! (my first bunny!) Link to post Share on other sites
NearlyThere Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I wrote what Polly said in my thread above, however, is it not possible that we can just say that Polly was very upset when she wrote that thread and just said what she said in the heat of the moment and try to provide support no matter who is asking for it and rise above the rest. I was not happy when she said what she did, however, I dont bear grudges life is too short, life to fragile. Plus also despite what was said to her when she posted that original comment she came back on the same forum and asked for help again. What does that say, someone in need of help. You reap what you sow. Link to post Share on other sites
peacelove Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 Hey Polly, Are you out there? Are you ok? Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I wrote what Polly said in my thread above, however, is it not possible that we can just say that Polly was very upset when she wrote that thread and just said what she said in the heat of the moment and try to provide support no matter who is asking for it and rise above the rest. I was not happy when she said what she did, however, I dont bear grudges life is too short, life to fragile. Plus also despite what was said to her when she posted that original comment she came back on the same forum and asked for help again. What does that say, someone in need of help. You reap what you sow. Also, I'd like to add the fact that she was new to LS and probably unfamiliar with how we "should" do things around here? We who've been here for a lil while should already know how a thread like this could snowball into rubbish with lack of respect for one another. If I have a problem with the views of a certain poster, I'd stay off their thread. Certainly, I'm not trying to help them and IMO it's rather foolish and immature to type anything else. I nominate you Butafly! (my first bunny!) Whaddya mean? I'm not nearly a grown up yet! I nominate YOU! *me passing the buck again:p * Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 My husband brought home a blanket. He didnt say a word about it. he put it on his favorite chair and there it sits. I have a feeling this came from HER. How do I know for sure? You can check his credit card statement and see if he's shopped anywhere recently where he might have bought a blanket. But if you know there's a HER, and you know you're relationship is basically that of roommates, then your gut instinct is probably correct in that it was a gift. The question that remains is how many "blankets" can you accept before your self-esteem and your soul is worn away? Teen children are very aware of what is going on in their home. I'm sure you don't want your kids to learn that it's normal or ok to be in a marriage where a spouse is cheating and the parents are miserable. I'm sure you don't want them to repeat the pattern in their own marriages one day. Teach them that loving sometimes means having to do the hard things, like seeking your freedom from a dishonorable spouse. Good luck to you. Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 You ladies seriously need help if you are going to taunt this woman. you wouldn't know about that mother theresa...keep your brown nose out of it. Link to post Share on other sites
erika2610 Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 You ladies seriously need help if you are going to taunt this woman. Who's taunting her? You're the one who brought up yousave me, seeing as how you like to follow her around and harrass her.. Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 Who's taunting her? You're the one who brought up yousave me, seeing as how you like to follow her around and harrass her.. You know perfectly well they are taunting her and flashing their affairs. I'm sure it's harmless though since it sounds so much like yousavemes situation and this little group of buddies is so good at coming up with alternate usernames to play and taunt. Link to post Share on other sites
frannie Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 Hm well I don't remember the previous thread, but then I'm useless with names most of the time. I do think it's a little unfair to talk about people 'flashing their affairs' on a board that's specifically for OW and OM. I mean... that's what we're here to talk about. I agree with people who've said that this thread would have been better off in the Infidelity section or somewhere where there would be more support and advice offered. It's not difficult to suspect that some threads appear on this board in order to taunt OW rather than the other way round. I'm not accusing the OP of this necessarily, but come on... if you're going to post about a subject like this on an OW/OM board you have to expect a lot of comments from people in affairs. No excuse for anyone being rude in either direction, of course. Link to post Share on other sites
erika2610 Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 You know perfectly well they are taunting her and flashing their affairs. I'm sure it's harmless though since it sounds so much like yousavemes situation and this little group of buddies is so good at coming up with alternate usernames to play and taunt. Uh yea, that's what we all do. We just sit here coming up with ways to taunt BS. I reread the thread, and nobody "taunted" her. YOU were the one who brought yousaveme into this. You made it about her. Nobody else. Nobody was flashing their affairs. I don't know what thread you were reading. Link to post Share on other sites
Author PollyPocket Posted December 29, 2006 Author Share Posted December 29, 2006 I can not find the post by yousaveme I would like to read them. I feel like all OW taunt. You act like your better then the W. Uh yea, that's what we all do. We just sit here coming up with ways to taunt BS. I reread the thread, and nobody "taunted" her. YOU were the one who brought yousaveme into this. You made it about her. Nobody else. Nobody was flashing their affairs. I don't know what thread you were reading. Link to post Share on other sites
peacelove Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 We Are Better. That's Why H Is With Us Now. Link to post Share on other sites
peacelove Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 Polly Picked A Pocket Link to post Share on other sites
Author PollyPocket Posted December 29, 2006 Author Share Posted December 29, 2006 Is there something wrong with you? Link to post Share on other sites
GreenEyedLady Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 Polly: I am very sorry for the situation that you are in and Erika is right, this thread has been one of support of you...if you really feel that by our mere existence we are taunting you, perhaps you shouldn't post in the OW/OM forum...it's probably too soon for you under the circumstances...my thoughts are with you...I hope that you will find peace and happiness in life...GEL Link to post Share on other sites
peacelove Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 Is there something wrong with you?[/qu Do you want something to be wrong with me Polly? Link to post Share on other sites
Author PollyPocket Posted December 29, 2006 Author Share Posted December 29, 2006 I would really like to know what other thread I was told to check out. Do you have any clue? Polly: I am very sorry for the situation that you are in and Erika is right, this thread has been one of support of you...if you really feel that by our mere existence we are taunting you, perhaps you shouldn't post in the OW/OM forum...it's probably too soon for you under the circumstances...my thoughts are with you...I hope that you will find peace and happiness in life...GEL Link to post Share on other sites
erika2610 Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 We Are Better. That's Why H Is With Us Now. NOW you're taunting. What is wrong with you?! No, you are no better. If you were, the H would leave his W. You're no better than anybody, and sitting here having fun taunting a hurting woman is pathetic. Link to post Share on other sites
Author PollyPocket Posted December 29, 2006 Author Share Posted December 29, 2006 you must be really proud of yourself...I will longer even respond to you. I would be wasting my time. Is there something wrong with you?[/qu Do you want something to be wrong with me Polly? Link to post Share on other sites
erika2610 Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 I can not find the post by yousaveme I would like to read them. I feel like all OW taunt. You act like your better then the W. Her posts start on page 2. She didn't come here until Noforgiveness brought her into it, and then directed comments at her. She was not taunting you. Link to post Share on other sites
peacelove Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 You're an awesome person Polly. Love ya! Link to post Share on other sites
Author PollyPocket Posted December 29, 2006 Author Share Posted December 29, 2006 Thank you . I will check it out. Her posts start on page 2. She didn't come here until Noforgiveness brought her into it, and then directed comments at her. She was not taunting you. Link to post Share on other sites
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