Jen2006 Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I have now been broken up with my boyfriend of 1 yr for about 2 weeks. The break up was mutual. Last Friday I called to tell him something ( I ran into a friend of ours) and he exploded and said he didn't think he could ever talk to me again and to not ever call him. So I left it at that and decided there is no chance we will ever get back together or even be friends. Well I made no contact with him and he didn't call me. On Christmas day he text messaged me around 6 and said Merry Christmas and that his daughter loved the gifts I got her. Then at 6:30 he called and left a message he seemed really out of character soft spoken and made long pauses. He said , " Jenny its me ........... well its christmas so Merry Christmas......... My daughter loved the gifts then he just hung up. Around 7:30 he called my house phone ( i didn't know he had been trying to get a hold of me cuz I didn't have my phone on me. ) I answered and he said hey its me , merry christmas and my daughter loved her presents and after the new year we can get together to sort our belongings,and then he said bye. Later on that night about 9 he texted me again and said Really..... The presents were great. I'm so confused y did he go through such great lengths to get a hold of me? Also today I texted him to see if he still had a pair of my boots cuz I needed them. ( I told him about a week ago he could trash them. They are the only thing I have left at his house. ) He responded by saying yes of course. Why does he still have them if I told him to throw them away? Am I over analyzing the situation? I need input. Link to post Share on other sites
californiakid Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 Seems like he still has some feelings for you or maybe he is just trying to be amicable in a hard situation. I think you expecting him to toss out an apparently nice pair of boots, but not doing it is nothing more than looking into it real deep. If you are still into him-either let him know or continue your NC. Time is sometimes the best thing... Link to post Share on other sites
guin_girl Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 That is an awful lot of contact to just tell you "thanks". But it could also be the holiday, it makes all of us act melancholy... Link to post Share on other sites
simon sez Posted December 30, 2006 Share Posted December 30, 2006 Stop sitting around pining for him. Stop calling him for any reason. Start dating other men. That will bring him around faster than Rosie O'Donnell can eat a cheeseburger. Let him find out that you are out partying and having the time of your life. Do it. Men love a challenge. Give him one. Haven't you ever noticed on this site or in your everyday observations how many times a man wants a woman back after she breaks up with him and has someone else she is spending time with? It drives them bonkers. Men get bored easily and are always looking for some new challenge or conquest. You are doomed to failure until you start seeing other guys. Once he thinks he may have lost you to someone else is when you will find out his true feelings. There are two things that tug at human emotions. The thrill of pursuit and the thought of irrevocable loss. Link to post Share on other sites
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