karlesa Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 Financial problems, job loss, and impending divorce. Does it get much worse? Link to post Share on other sites
Sassy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 Let's hope not!! I lost my baby 2 mths ago on December 16. I miscarried on November 16, and it was the hardest thing i have had to go through. I never thought it would happen to me. I finally got my cycle after 33days and am done now waiting on the ovulation. Hope to start the new year with a another pregnancy that is healthy ! I was 9wks and it died at a gestation of 7wks . Said because of late ovualtion that it didn't make it. Something didn't come together genetically and couldn't progress and there fore it died . I already have a healthy 7 yr old daughter so we know we can have a baby just wasn't meant to be ! Looking foward to this yr being over this year too much heartache. Hopefully 2007 will bring us both a better year!! Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 Financial problems, job loss, and impending divorce. Does it get much worse? It COULD! You coulda had bad health or something like that. Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 Let's hope not!! I lost my baby 2 mths ago on December 16. I miscarried on November 16, and it was the hardest thing i have had to go through. I never thought it would happen to me. I finally got my cycle after 33days and am done now waiting on the ovulation. Hope to start the new year with a another pregnancy that is healthy ! I was 9wks and it died at a gestation of 7wks . Said because of late ovualtion that it didn't make it. Something didn't come together genetically and couldn't progress and there fore it died . I already have a healthy 7 yr old daughter so we know we can have a baby just wasn't meant to be ! Looking foward to this yr being over this year too much heartache. Hopefully 2007 will bring us both a better year!! I wish you both a better 2007! Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I wish you a better 2007. For me, it was pretty bad. My mom died at the end of 2005 and my ex left me 2 weeks later. I've had the worse year of my business and stand a chance of losing it. It's ok, really because I have other options so I will be fine. I crashed on the racetrack twice (breaking my collar bone and getting a nasty concussion). I then lost my house and truck keys, then last week lost my wallet and this week found out my ex is engaged. Yeah, 2006 has sucked but I am not going to let that get me down. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you deal with it. And I am sticking to that. Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I wish you a better 2007. For me, it was pretty bad. My mom died at the end of 2005 and my ex left me 2 weeks later. I've had the worse year of my business and stand a chance of losing it. It's ok, really because I have other options so I will be fine. I crashed on the racetrack twice (breaking my collar bone and getting a nasty concussion). I then lost my house and truck keys, then last week lost my wallet and this week found out my ex is engaged. Yeah, 2006 has sucked but I am not going to let that get me down. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you deal with it. And I am sticking to that. I wish you a better year too Cali! OMG, yes now that sounds like a terrible year, but you know the saying, "what doesn't kill you..." Glad you're optimistic about things. There really is a bright side. Really. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I wish you a better year too Cali! OMG, yes now that sounds like a terrible year, but you know the saying, "what doesn't kill you..." Glad you're optimistic about things. There really is a bright side. Really. Thanks. The business stuff irks me because I did 250k in placements in 2005 and less than half of that this year. All because of the economy and clients that take forever to interview and then don't want to pay market rate for technology people. What does not kill you will only make you stronger. I agree and this year was truly the year I grew up and became a bonafied man and left any semblence of boyhood behind. Link to post Share on other sites
Sassy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I wish you both a better 2007! Thanks Buttafly! Wish me lots of baby dust too. Link to post Share on other sites
Sassy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I wish you a better 2007. For me, it was pretty bad. My mom died at the end of 2005 and my ex left me 2 weeks later. I've had the worse year of my business and stand a chance of losing it. It's ok, really because I have other options so I will be fine. I crashed on the racetrack twice (breaking my collar bone and getting a nasty concussion). I then lost my house and truck keys, then last week lost my wallet and this week found out my ex is engaged. Yeah, 2006 has sucked but I am not going to let that get me down. Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you deal with it. And I am sticking to that. Sorry to hear about your mom and exgf Cali! We both have suffered loss this yr. Hopefully we will have a better 2007. Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I lost my baby 2 mths ago on December 16. I miscarried on November 16, I don't know much about miscarriages, but did you lose the baby in Nov or Dec? Nov 16th to Dec 16 is one month. Maybe you were meaning 2 weeks ago? Anyway I hope you have a better year. Link to post Share on other sites
Buttaflyy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 Thanks Buttafly! Wish me lots of baby dust too. OH YES! LOTS OF BABYDUST TO YOU SASSY! Link to post Share on other sites
Sassy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I lost my baby 2 mths ago on December 16. I miscarried on November 16, I don't know much about miscarriages, but did you lose the baby in Nov or Dec? Nov 16th to Dec 16 is one month. Maybe you were meaning 2 weeks ago? Anyway I hope you have a better year. It has been 2mths as of December 16. November 16,06 is when i miscarried!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Sassy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 OH YES! LOTS OF BABYDUST TO YOU SASSY! Thanks Butta! I need lots of baby dust wishes hoping to conceive when i ovulate in Jan ! Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 It has been 2mths as of December 16. November 16,06 is when i miscarried!!! You're saying you were 2 months along when you miscarried, ok gotcha. Link to post Share on other sites
Sassy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 You're saying you were 2 months along when you miscarried, ok gotcha. No I was 3mths pregnant when i miscarried on NOVEMBER 16TH. Link to post Share on other sites
Guestbaby Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 i love you Caliguy, hugs. Hang n there we all have had our fair chance. For me, i never wish to see myself in 2006 too again, all i see is that lil girl, on her knees head in hands, filled with tears n so much pain....been a brutal year but where i learn to grow up too. cheers! Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 i love you Caliguy, hugs. Hang n there we all have had our fair chance. For me, i never wish to see myself in 2006 too again, all i see is that lil girl, on her knees head in hands, filled with tears n so much pain....been a brutal year but where i learn to grow up too. cheers! Awww shucks, thanks Sorry about your pain as well. If you seek positives, you'll find them. If you look for the negatives, you'll find them as well. I'm approaching 2007 saying "This is my year, da**it!!" Link to post Share on other sites
Teacher's Pet Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 I started this year blissfully in love... ...got engaged... ...got dumped... Now, my ex seems to be "on the prowl" again, and a little piece of me still misses her. I know I have to stop that, but seeing her personal ad back online makes me wonder if my "replacement" didn't work out because of feelings for me..... I hate having unanswered questions like this.... -tp confused. Link to post Share on other sites
shawn_68 Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 Now, my ex seems to be "on the prowl" again, and a little piece of me still misses her. I know I have to stop that, but seeing her personal ad back online makes me wonder if my "replacement" didn't work out because of feelings for me..... I hate having unanswered questions like this.... To keep things in perspective ... she knows how to get in touch with you if she REALLY wanted to. But, as you've found out, you can live quite well without her. Keep moving onward!! Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted December 28, 2006 Share Posted December 28, 2006 To keep things in perspective ... she knows how to get in touch with you if she REALLY wanted to. But, as you've found out, you can live quite well without her. Keep moving onward!! Yep, definitely. Ex's can always find you that is for sure. If they aren't contacting you it's because they're moving on. We should be doing the same. Why wallow over someone that doesn't want to be with you? Instead, find someone who does Link to post Share on other sites
SDGal Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 because it could not be my own or else I would have woken up already and ended it. Let's see...the love of my life told me almost 2 years ago he did not love me and March 25, 2006 I said the words that ended it. I have been miserable every single day since. I find no joy in things anymore; food does not taste the same. Work sucks! The firm I work for is the pits. It is such a good 'ole boy high instep place, full of self-important ivy leaguers. I hate the city I live in; people are so fake and the art of conversation is completely lost here. On a positive note, I have my health (as far as I know). I don't have a terminal illness. SO I guess I do have something to be grateful for. Cali guy--I have read your posts for some time now and I was rooting for you when you began talking to your ex again. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 Cali guy--I have read your posts for some time now and I was rooting for you when you began talking to your ex again. Thanks, I appreciate that. In the end it didn't work and it's for the best. Really, what would have happened had we got together but the same emotional roller coaster it had been the entire time. I don't want that and I don't need that. She's the new guy's problem now The best thing to come out of all this is I've learned a lot about myself and who I am and that I am a LOT stronger than I thought I was emotionally. I went from being a weak-willed, insecure guy to a much stronger and confident guy through a lot of self-reflection and healing. I should be thanking the ex. She did me a big favor by dumping me. She made me grow up emotionally! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 2006 was awful for me too. Everything was blowing up left, right and center. Tonight is the first night that honesty prevailed, major breakthroughs, making all the pain worth it. Yahhhh to 2007! Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 Let's hope not!! I lost my baby 2 mths ago on December 16. I miscarried on November 16, and it was the hardest thing i have had to go through. I never thought it would happen to me. I finally got my cycle after 33days and am done now waiting on the ovulation. Hope to start the new year with a another pregnancy that is healthy ! I was 9wks and it died at a gestation of 7wks . Said because of late ovualtion that it didn't make it. Something didn't come together genetically and couldn't progress and there fore it died . I already have a healthy 7 yr old daughter so we know we can have a baby just wasn't meant to be ! Looking foward to this yr being over this year too much heartache. Hopefully 2007 will bring us both a better year!! sounds great! 2007 is going to be great for me too. i plan on having a baby with my wife after reversing an op, but she doesn't know yet but i know she wants another baby - we have 4 already. Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 2006 had its ups and downs but for my wife and i - it was the greatest learning experience ever and brought us even closer. and even when she miscarried our baby, it didn't bring us down because together we are strong and we decided to keep on trying [which is always fun whatever the reason - wink] and i started getting in better shape, eating better, quit smoking ande drinking, because i wanted big strong healthy sperm swimmers - and she did the same. so, 2007 will rawk - our feb vaction i think will be the time when we get the deed done! wooo hooo Link to post Share on other sites
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