When your mate is not 100% certain about the relationship

[Guest]

I am currently in a long-term relationship of eight years and engaged for 3 years. However, for the past year the relationship has been stagnant though we had not experienced any major problems. Recently he shared with me his doubt (over the past fout years) about remaining in the relationship due to he wants to be 100 % certain I am the "right" person for him. Can anyone be 100% certain? He and I have only dated each other prior to our relationship and I want very much to spend the rest of my life with him.

 

We are very compaitable and like any other couple we often failed to effectivley communicate with one another. Aside from this, I cannot understand what has happened between us. He is a capricorn and I am a pisces.

 

Can anyone help me understand? Should I let him go. We live together and I feel as though we are already apart. This raises doubts in my mind as well.

[JackJack]

Its probably a good thing he shared with you his doubt now. Better now than after you all were married. Maybe he is getting cold feet, he knows now that since you all have been engaged that marriage is around the corner for him. I'm not sure, only he knows. Talk with him more on the matter.