Rooster_DAR Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 and my schooling right now is in computer investigation... better watch it... hehehehe... JK!! I am one step ahead of you, I am an IT director and chief security officer. D'oh! Link to post Share on other sites
guin_girl Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 I am one step ahead of you, I am an IT director and chief security officer. D'oh! yea, I saw that earlier... and I'm too OLD to be your intern.... LOL Link to post Share on other sites
ilmw Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 I'm 43.. I use the 10 year rule..The youngest I would date is 33. Anything less is at a different rate of maturity for me I have always felt that if you grow up watching a different era of cartoons then you will not have anything in common except fuqking.. This is of course only my opinion Thx god Scooby Doo.. transends all ages... Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 yea, I saw that earlier... and I'm too OLD to be your intern.... LOL You can't be my inturn, so you'll have to wait yourturn. Hahahahahahah Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 Phooey! And here I thought you were stalking me! Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 If I was looking for a serious relationship I totally concur with you, but as for me I'm am new to the singles scene again so I'm just weighing out my options. This is assuming that the younger girl wants to let you bang her.. she might just be a nice girl not wanting to make enemies.. You have to wonder about a real young girl that has the Daddy complex.. what is her real baggage ? and how will it affect things ? Most woman gag at the thought of banging someone 20-25-30 years older.. unless they are broken in some fashion Link to post Share on other sites
ratingsguy Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 You can have things in common with someone, even if your age isn't in common... Yes you can. When I dated someone who was 3 years younger than me, she sometimes complained that I acted "too old". You can take that to mean many things, but she was referring to the fact that I'm more mature for my age, like older movies, like older music, have conservative views, and don't take stupid risks or do stupid things than most young men do. Fast forward to now. I'm with someone who's 15 years older than me, and we have plenty in common. And more importantly, we have that "click". Conversation is never lacking. We enjoy each other's company and look forward to the future. Sex isn't the only thing, by far (but yes, it is great! ). Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 I am a 46 yr.old male and i love women, especially younger women. I was out the other night with a friend and met a couple of hotties in their 20's that i am sure i could have got a date with. I am wondering what people think of older guys dating younger chicks? Should i stay closer to my age or go for what i want? I like dating older men, myself. I like men who have lines aroudn their eyes for some reason I find that to be really hot. Also, older men are much better in bed than their younger counterparts. I'm just sayin'. My mom was like 22 years younger than my Dad, so that might have something to do with my older man fetish. It's what I grew up thinking of as "normal." Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 This is assuming that the younger girl wants to let you bang her.. she might just be a nice girl not wanting to make enemies.. You have to wonder about a real young girl that has the Daddy complex.. what is her real baggage ? and how will it affect things ? Most woman gag at the thought of banging someone 20-25-30 years older.. unless they are broken in some fashion Well we are going out to a club tonight. I she kept asking me what I'm doing this weekend (mainly tonight), and I said I may go out. Trust me I've been around long enough to know when someone is into me. I've always dates females that were somewhere around 10 years younger than me, and some that were much younger than that. I look way to young for my age, so that makes a big difference. Most woman gag at the thought of banging someone 20-25-30 years older.. unless they are broken in some fashion C'mon Artic...you know that is not true. Mabe if I was out of shape and acted/felt like I was old, but I have a pretty good personality and I am still in touch with the latest and greatest. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 C'mon Artic...you know that is not true. Actually I have found this to be true.. I work with younger females and have many ( 4 ) younger sisters and they have friends.. I have asked them about this.. The ones that gag at dating a 20-30 year older man are normal and have normal relationships with their friends/family and the guys they date. The ones that are okay with it have terrible relationships with their friends/family and the guys they date and you can tell by getting to know them on a friendly level that they are broken. This is of course me speaking only from my experience as someone your age. I would like to add that I'm not talking about someone 10 years younger here.. I am talking about women 20 years younger or basically old enough to be your own child. And being in shape has little to do with the gag factor.. Normal women don't want to date their Daddy Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 Actually I have found this to be true.. I work with younger females and have many ( 4 ) younger sisters and they have friends.. I have asked them about this.. The ones that gag at dating a 20-30 year older man are normal and have normal relationships with their friends/family and the guys they date. The ones that are okay with it have terrible relationships with their friends/family and the guys they date and you can tell by getting to know them on a friendly level that they are broken. This is of course me speaking only from my experience as someone your age. I would like to add that I'm not talking about someone 10 years younger here.. I am talking about women 20 years younger or basically old enough to be your own child. And being in shape has little to do with the gag factor.. Normal women don't want to date their Daddy Point taken I think perhaps she is flattered that I will talk and flirt with her. Maybe it's just an ego boost that she's getting, and I'm getting one too. I'm sure nothing is going to happen. I don't think once we sit down and start talking that we will be able to relate in the least other than sexual attraction. Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted December 29, 2006 Share Posted December 29, 2006 My take : This is YOUR life. If you want someone 10 /20 years older or younger than you : GO FOR IT ! There are those who date the same age level and there are those who like younger ( me ) and I wonder if I will ever get that out of my system..? Who Knows ? Since I'm not looking for someone to take care of me so I do whatever I want when I want and whenever I want. Younger men are attracted to me and thats what I prefer. Maybe someday I will find someone near to my age or older but I can't imagine having awesome *play times *but then who knows ? Do ( older ) men in their 40's and 50's have the plumbing working okay ? Cuz Young ones are like a ROCK! ! lol Link to post Share on other sites
notmakingsense Posted December 30, 2006 Share Posted December 30, 2006 Do ( older ) men in their 40's and 50's have the plumbing working okay ? Cuz Young ones are like a ROCK! ! lol All I can say is so far, so good! lol And when it stops working, there's always Viagra! Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted December 30, 2006 Share Posted December 30, 2006 All I can say is so far, so good! lol And when it stops working, there's always Viagra! My plumbing works great! But like she stated, if I have any issues there's always the local pharmacists willing help. Link to post Share on other sites
Curmudgeon Posted December 31, 2006 Share Posted December 31, 2006 I like dating older men, myself. I like men who have lines aroudn their eyes for some reason I find that to be really hot. Also, older men are much better in bed than their younger counterparts. Hold those thoughts, BO, if I ever become single again. Lines aplenty and as for the rest....well....you said it! Link to post Share on other sites
JLO22 Posted December 31, 2006 Share Posted December 31, 2006 personal when I see a older man with a young female... I think that the man have some insecurities about himself, low-esteem, and cannot date someone his age- because he is full of **** and someone his age will not deal with the bull like someone half his age would..... Link to post Share on other sites
JLO22 Posted December 31, 2006 Share Posted December 31, 2006 ....but by all means whatever floats your boat! Do what makes you happy? What can you possible have in common with someone half your age besides sex! Do you want to marry them? Have a long term R? Also be careful dont get your feelings hurt you know what most young girls want with older guys.. (money and to take care of them) for the time until they find someone on their level they can relate and grow with??? THINK ABOUT IT I forgot when I see a grown lady with young men it's all in sex, what WOMEN want to take care a man. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted December 31, 2006 Share Posted December 31, 2006 ....but by all means whatever floats your boat! Do what makes you happy? What can you possible have in common with someone half your age besides sex! Do you want to marry them? Have a long term R? Also be careful dont get your feelings hurt you know what most young girls want with older guys.. (money and to take care of them) for the time until they find someone on their level they can relate and grow with??? THINK ABOUT IT I forgot when I see a grown lady with young men it's all in sex, what WOMEN want to take care a man. You darn right its the SEX ! Well and the stamina....and the lean hard body...that kind of thing Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedSarah Posted December 31, 2006 Share Posted December 31, 2006 I don't think I'd go with someone twice my age unless I was 45 and he was ninety, extremely loaded, had alzheimers, and I could pretend to him that he proposed. Alot of girls seem to have that fantasy Link to post Share on other sites
clatan Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 I know what it's like. I'm 35 and most all the female friends and girls I meet tend to be in the 18-22 range. It really annoys me the way people are so eager to criticize me for that too. I'm not about to suggest that I DON'T enjoy meeting attractive younger women, but what do people expect me to do? It's not like there are many single women close to my age and if I ever do come across them, they always have kids -- and people always tend to criticize me for not wanting to date a girl with kids. I'm sorry, but people always like to point out the "perceived" pitfalls of age differences, but what about the pitfalls of dating a woman with children? I'm a single, never married, never engaged, no kids kind of guy and that's the kind of girl I want to meet. I can think of one female friend I have that's over 25 and single with no kids and she's studying abroad in New Zealand now! It may have a lot to do with me living in a rural area, but where I live, there are very, very few single girls over the age of twenty five, and 99.9% of them have at least one child if not two or three. But it's not just that. It's kind of like Jack Nicholson said in a movie I saw a while back... An older female friend was giving him a hard time about dating younger women and he said "It's not that I'm not attracted to women my age, it's that they aren't attracted to me." I don't know if that's exactly the case with me, but I've noticed that I rarely have women in their late 20's or early 30's flirt with me. But I always have girls around 19 to 21 talking to me, sometimes even girls in high school. The thing is though, I usually don't pursue back, because I'm afraid of what people would think. I'm kind of getting to the point that I'm thinking I should just say to hell with what everyone thinks, because I'm starting to realize that I've let a lot of really neat girls get away because of that. Link to post Share on other sites
Rooster_DAR Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 personal when I see a older man with a young female... I think that the man have some insecurities about himself, low-esteem, and cannot date someone his age- because he is full of **** and someone his age will not deal with the bull like someone half his age would..... I can assure you that's not the case here. Although I may be considered old by age, I don't even look close to that. At the risk of sounding like I'm full of **it, I am a very passionate person, know how to charm, not desperate, and it shows. I am secure with my age and the person I am. (other than the slight self esteem damage I incurred from my recent breakup) I would say if just one person half my age liked me you are probably right, but this is nothing new to me. I also attract older women, but most of them I'm not really attracted to. There are a few older women I think are just hot, generally because they take good care of themselves and carry a good personality. Cheers! Link to post Share on other sites
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