goodguy123 Posted December 31, 2006 Share Posted December 31, 2006 OK, so here's my situation. Me and my girl broke up about 4 months ago, and even after we broke up she would say stuff like she thinks we'll be back together again someday, just not now. And I know its starting to have been a long time, but I still love her very much. Anyway, I never call her or text her anymore, but she still usually texts me or calls me about once a week (usually text). And we tried working things out twice, but both times only lasted a few days before she would say she isn't ready yet. I have tried everything I could possibly think of to get her back, but nothing has worked. So here is my thoughts. One time she texted me and I was hanging out with a friend and she asked if it was a guy or girl and I said it was a guy but asked if it would bother her if it was a girl, and she said yes. (stupid me should have said it was a girl). But anyway, I know she is with someone else now (not sure for how long), so I was thinking that next time I hear from her I should make up that I'm with a girl to get her jealous. (Wish there was a new girl but not yet). So do you guys think it will have any affect? And what should I say also? Should I just say I'm hanging out with a friend, or that i just got back from dinner or something? Any ideas? Link to post Share on other sites
notmakingsense Posted December 31, 2006 Share Posted December 31, 2006 I would not recommend lying to her or anyone -- bad karma. What you should probably do instead is to simply not answer her texts, or maybe just joke around in a way that evades giving her any personal information. For example: her: "so, are you with a guy or a girl" you: "wouldn't you like to know, heh, heh!" Be mysterious and a lot less available for contact. Be busy and go out a lot with your friends and don't answer all her calls/texts. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted December 31, 2006 Share Posted December 31, 2006 Umm, instead of lying about it, start dating other women. At least then you won't have to lie and it will give you a chance to see what other women are like. If she happens to find out about it, so be it. Don't do it to make her jealous, do it to break your dependency on your ex. Link to post Share on other sites
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