cherrybomber300 Posted August 6, 2002 Share Posted August 6, 2002 I find it so hard to meet cute, successful, and not sleazy men in NY when you're a young girl. I need to find a way that doesn't seem like trolling for men and would allow me to participate sans girlfriends. Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted August 6, 2002 Share Posted August 6, 2002 Try online dating. Match.com, matchmaker.com, yahoo.com, etc. There are tons of online dating sites out there. You'll hear from some losers and serial daters, but you'll also meet some decent guys on there. Many people have a hard time meeting on the bar scene, and these kind of sites are where they are congregating. As long as you move it to real life within a few e-mails, it's really no different than meeting in a bar. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cherrybomber300 Posted August 6, 2002 Author Share Posted August 6, 2002 Yeah, I've heard this is a good way for people to meet these days. I think I've gotten to that point. I just can't believe I've become so cynical at such a young age. I'm just sick of wasting my time. Link to post Share on other sites
Ally Boo Posted August 6, 2002 Share Posted August 6, 2002 Why not meet people through friends or aquaintences? Make it a goal to make a friend. Maybe its someone you see daily. Just make it a point to talk to that one person every day and try to work out a friendship with them. I'm sure you are a nice person and it wouldn't be hard to do. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted August 6, 2002 Share Posted August 6, 2002 Your thoughts dictate your reality. If you think something will be difficult, it will be. If you change your way of thinking and declare finding nice men an easy task, you will be amazed at how magically some good men will come into your life. The problem for most people is that they are victims of their own brain. For some reason, people cannot control their thoughts. It's absolutely dumbfounding. Anyhow, just try. Truly believe some good men will come your way...and they will. There are many books out there on positive thinking, neurolinguistic programming, neuroassociative conditioning, etc. It's a whole science. Your thinking can even help you get well faster, help wounds heal faster, help you shed pounds if you need to, get you a dream job...or just get laid if that's what you want. Anything you repeat often goes into your subconscious mind and becomes your reality. Stop saying good men are hard to find and that will no longer be your reality. Link to post Share on other sites
BeReal Posted August 7, 2002 Share Posted August 7, 2002 If you decide to try online dating, check out eharmony.com. I haven't actually tried it but I've taken the free personality test and it looks less sleazy than some of the others. Link to post Share on other sites
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