lovehurts411 Posted January 1, 2007 Share Posted January 1, 2007 hey everyone now i have never had a girlfriend so im desperate now thee is this girl in my highschool that i think is the one for me she sweet,pretty, and smart. now i barley talk say hi and stuff. i even tlk to hetr online but dosnt go anywere. also i cant go talk to her at school beacause shes with a bunch of guys and girls surrounding her. now shes single but if dont act soon shell be gone. please help. how can i get with her or at least be closer with her Link to post Share on other sites
LN99 Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 The only way you can get any type of results is to let her know your interested. How do you do that you ask? Tell her, or ask her out! If your nervous doing it in person because of her being around people, why not do it when you are online? Ask her if she would like to see a movie or go get something to eat etc. Anything to get her one on one with you. Honestly, this is the only way you will ever know if you stand a chance with her. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 dont do it online u may come off cowardly. Just walk up to her and talk to her even though she is surounded by people. try going to hang out with her this weekend figure out where shes going and go there yourself. Just go flirt with her you dont have to tell her you like her. Ur going to have to get the guts up to just talk to her in person and stop hoping to find her all alone in some perfect situation Link to post Share on other sites
LN99 Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 KMT does have a point about the online thing. You should get used to being around her (in person) if you are gonna ask her out. But get her alone somehow and then do it. If you do have to resort to online, just ask her to hang out. Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 KMT does have a point about the online thing. You should get used to being around her (in person) if you are gonna ask her out. But get her alone somehow and then do it. If you do have to resort to online, just ask her to hang out. look first off its the number one highschool boy mistake to get fixated on one girl and ignore all the other girls you could be making a conection with in your area. Second your going to have to learnt to speak to this girl in person but LN99 is right you have to get her alone. So take things into your own hands dont make it a big thing just approach her and talk to her while shes around all those other people and ask if you can talk to her over there or where ever just get her alone then flirt with her and ask her for her number Remember dont get all nervous dont put pressure on yourself its no big deal if she turns you down out right, the only way your going to get her is if you have fun hitting on her and just do it playfully. good luck Link to post Share on other sites
Ultimate ATF Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 become one of the bunch of girls and guys surrounding her and be her friend, do what she wants, etc etc. Ive noticed a bunch of boys that have done that and it works good. It gets thier attention. EDIT: Or, the eaistest way would be just to ask her out or say she is beautiful. What do you got to lose. Not like she'll blow out your brains or ruin your life. Link to post Share on other sites
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