Guest Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 Hello All Ok i need advice. I am 33 years old & have been working at my company for 6 years now. We just hired this new sales manager that works in Chicago. He came to the company 3 months ago & I said Hello but that was it. We started talking on email from work. He said that he wanted to take me out when he was in NJ, but i wouldn't even look at him hahaha. He said i wouldn't give him the time of day hahahah. So then emailing everyday went to talking on the phone 4-5 times a day. He has too much drama going on in chicago, kids, etc. so i know this isn't gonna go anywhere. However, he is coming to NJ for training from Jan 8 - 11. We have been talking on the phone now everyday for like 1 month. I know when he comes to NJ, he's gonna want to fool around. & trust me, I am dying to fool around with him. I won't sleep with him, cause i'll get hurt, cause i get emotionally attached when i sleep with men. So i dont sleep with aanyone unless I am in a relationship with them. I was wondering, is it bad if i fool around with him when he's here for 3 days? Does that make me look easy? Not that i care what he thinks cause who knows if i will ever see him again. He is just so HOT & its been awhile! Advice please!! Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
kristy102 Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 I guess the answer is simple .... It depends what you both want out of it ... a relationship , or just flirting and stuff .... kids im assuming his not married so heck why not fool around have fun ... If he is married .. dont go there , you work in the same company it would or could get ugly ! N BTW ... i think you already are attached to him or you wouldnt be asking for advice... and if he's calling you that much id say he's hooked on you too !! 3 days of fun ..... or months of wondering what if .... Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 Hello Yes u r correct, we must be attached to each other in some way cause we talk so much everyday & plus the fact that i am asking for advice. No he is not married. I guess I will fool around with him & just have fun. I never did that before & am looking forward to it actually. hahah Nothing wrong with doing everything but hahahah Nothing wrong with fooling around with him, i just will not sleep with him cause I then will get emotionally attached. Thanks for your advice! Link to post Share on other sites
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