Guest Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 So here is my question. I've been in contact with the ex..went over to her place to get some of my stuff and we had a quick little chat. A hug and a kiss on the cheek and plans to meet in a week and a bit. I do want to reconcile. Any advice on the conversation during our meeting? How to avoid the friends thing....do you just come out and say you want to be the one to love them or do you play it cool? Looking for advice from people who have actually been there and done it and hopefully had some success or have learnt from their failures in the process. Positive advice would be great..not looking for negatives here..thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Canuck2006 Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 Personally this is what I would do. First dress up nice. Look good. Go somewhere that's comfortable for both of you. Someplace that is relaxing. Keep the conversation light. Flirt a bit, compliment them lightly and listen. Get out on a happy note. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Canuck2006 Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 Here is my advice: 1. Look good. 2.Relax. 3.Be charming..flirt, compliment them lightly 4.Listen 5.Get out of there first and leave on a happy note. Not sure what else really...anybody? Good luck! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
gfto Posted January 2, 2007 Share Posted January 2, 2007 Positive advice would be great..not looking for negatives here.. Cancel the meeting with your ex and find a new girlfriend. Link to post Share on other sites
Canuck2006 Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Cancel the meeting with your ex and find a new girlfriend. Why waste your time posting stuff like this to someone? It's obvious they are doing what they believe in and asked for positive motivation. It's not their fault you're a complete loser in your own relationships. Ignore this person Guest...there are people here that are interested in helping you. Link to post Share on other sites
gfto Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Why waste your time posting stuff like this to someone? It's obvious they are doing what they believe in and asked for positive motivation. It's not their fault you're a complete loser in your own relationships. Ignore this person Guest...there are people here that are interested in helping you. bad day Canuck? Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Cancel the meeting with your ex and find a new girlfriend. Why? We have a chance to get back together. Why would I want to throw that away??? Giving up seems like the cowards way out of a situation like this. Canuck thanks for the help. I'll let you know how it went! Link to post Share on other sites
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