classic examples of mistakes men make in a relatinship

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#1. when i was in a LTR and my gal was living with me, see whated to pay half the bills, and i wanted her to use that money to pay down her student debt so when the end of the month would come she would ask what her share was and i wouldn't show her the hyrdo, phone, cable, water, etc. bills which her half would really be abou $250 and i would say, its $100 - and then i would take that money she gave and put into an account i opened and planned for her duaghters RESP. and she was free to check the bills if she wanted, unfortunately, all this backfired and she took off.

 

#2. my gal stopped talking on the house phone and spent time outside on her cell. in other words, i don't want you to listen to what i am saying or who i am talking to. i trusted her and to this day, still do.

 

#3. when i was seriously addicted, i wanted her to confront me about it and left many ways for her to catch me at these things. unfortunately, it bakefired and she she that as lying.

 

#4. when my gal left, instead of putting up a fight, i let her go because that was what she told me she wanted. backfired, never saw her again.

 

#5. when i was in a LTR, i usually answered qu3estions, thinking what she would qwant to hear, instead of what i wanted because i wanted her to be happy. backfired, she that my life revolved around her and that i was co-dependent.

 

#6. and on and on and on.

 

thankfully, we all grow up and our dumbass tendencies that were just temparary disappear and sanity returns. better late than never. ta da!

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