faithsway Posted January 3, 2007 Share Posted January 3, 2007 Well, its the new year and I am still waiting for my ex to give me a second chance. (if you can try to read my last thread titled I want him back). I was lucky enough to have been able to spend the new year with him, and our friends. I have found out from friends that he is still unsure, that he is still hurt, and is still unable to trust me again. (I broke off the engagement due to really cold feet). He is starting to warm up to me alittle bit more when our friends are around. (Before he acted like i didn't exist in front of them, but when we were alone he was normal). Still not quite sure what is going to happen. I know that I have to wait. Just needed some words of encourgement or advice. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
jusified Posted January 4, 2007 Share Posted January 4, 2007 I know you know how much you have hurt the guy, there might be a posibility that he will neve trust or forgive you (which in my opinion is perfectly accpetable). But if you love him and realise you've made a mistake then do what you think is right and what it takes to get him back, if the main issue is trust then its all about time and patience. Show him that you are there for him and he can trust you. It is easy to run away and make a big mistake that hurts someone, because you don't have to deal with it. It is 100 times more difficult to amend the mistake and face up to it, learn from it and improve. Link to post Share on other sites
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