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Lying, ex.....UPDATE.


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Spoonandfork22

things are still hard. i have nightmares. i have thoughts that im still being lied to and played a fool.

 

question.

 

 

when i asked this girl, who those of you know by now is somewhat coniving, sneaky, insecure, the list goes on....if her and my bf had gotten together while i was with him....i.e he cheated on me.....she was slow to answer then did with a 'no'. the second time i asked her she said 'define hooking up' and then told me again they had not. really?? because youre not acting like you didnt.

 

my boyfriend swears up & down, when we had our first conversations, he never cheated on me and Im not bringing up this nightmare with him again becuase i really am working on the trust thing. as far as i know he has not cheated and his only mistake was lying to me about having contact with this girl after i asked for NC. that was bad enough.

 

but like i said.....nagging feeling inside. i feel like she is still messing with my head. still making me wonder if he DID cheat, if he IS a jerk. i feel horrible about this. and the fact that i want to say "seriously...DID you?"

 

this is sad, but this girl, who i told you is friends with me, asked me to hang out friday....i kind want to confront her and get all the truth out! i just feel like im missing out on something.....but is it paranoia? or a gut feeling? at this point i cant distinguish.

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First of all this girl is not your friend and you should leave her alone. At this point I would take the attitude with her of "who cares what you two did". Your BF is trying to work it out with you now and you're trying to work it out with him. Since you forgave him and took him back let the past go. Any further info will only hurt you. Stop the jealousy act with your BF or he will get turned off. If something is going on it will be revealed to you, you won't have to go looking. God only let's us play the fool for so long before he reveals it to us.

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