babygirl4 Posted August 14, 2002 Share Posted August 14, 2002 I have been going out with this kid for a little while now, and one night I was hanging out with some of my friends which happened to be some guys. He didnt care that i was with them but they started a fight with some people at his house and we ended up there and i went to make sure that my boyfriend would be ok well it got pretty bad at his house so i called him when i got home i asked him staight out if he was mad at me and he said no i am not mad at u it wasn't ur fault and said that he loved me and would call me tomorrow! well tomorrow came and I haerd no call and then 2 more days went by and still no call! I called him but when i would they would say that he wasnt there or he was sleeping so i think that he is avoiding me! I even had friends call! I dont know what to do I miss him and i dont know what to think! so someone asked him are u gonna call her and he said that he would think about it! what do i do help please!........ Link to post Share on other sites
velvet Posted August 14, 2002 Share Posted August 14, 2002 What do you do? Take control of your emotions. You cannot force someone to call you if they choose not to. He said it wasn't your fault. You could chalk it up to it actually being your fault but that wouldn't be fare to you. After all he gave you the impression that it wasn't. So from this point on you should give him at least a few weeks for him to call. If you don't hear from him in the next few weeks than stop by unexpectedly and see his reaction. Link to post Share on other sites
Ally Boo Posted August 14, 2002 Share Posted August 14, 2002 Get new friends that have a little more respect and maturity so they don't screw things up for you. You can tell a LOT about a person from who their friends are. Link to post Share on other sites
Author babygirl4 Posted August 15, 2002 Author Share Posted August 15, 2002 Thanks but the thing is my friends do have respect. His friends started it but still in my opinion it should have never happened. Link to post Share on other sites
clia Posted August 15, 2002 Share Posted August 15, 2002 Stop calling and stop having your friends call. He will call when and if he's ready. In the meantime, get busy with your life. He may not call you ever again. You just never know with people. Even though it may not be your fault, your friends were still involved. There's no telling what his impression of the situation is. But calling him endlessly and having your friends call him will not improve your situation. Just let him think. Link to post Share on other sites
Ally Boo Posted August 15, 2002 Share Posted August 15, 2002 You say they have respect, but they have NO maturity. What happened happened, and they still acted that way, and it still reflects back on you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author babygirl4 Posted August 15, 2002 Author Share Posted August 15, 2002 ok i understand what u guys mean! i went to talk to him the other day though and he said that he was happy that i came! and we figured some **** out and he said that we are gonna take it slow and work on gettin back together that we did a few things wrong and he was all nice about it and serious but then he said that he would call and he never did again......... Link to post Share on other sites
Ally Boo Posted August 15, 2002 Share Posted August 15, 2002 Words mean NOTHING....Actions mean EVERYTHING...there's your answer. Link to post Share on other sites
Author babygirl4 Posted August 18, 2002 Author Share Posted August 18, 2002 Yeah i guess that u are right! So u think that I should just try to get over him and move on?? should i call again or write him an email? or stop by? Link to post Share on other sites
Stacy69 Posted August 19, 2002 Share Posted August 19, 2002 i think you should go and talk to him then have sex with him (its fun!!)... lol im just playing well i didnt know what to say whenever you told me and i dont know what to say now either but hey!! lol Link to post Share on other sites
Ally Boo Posted August 19, 2002 Share Posted August 19, 2002 That was wrong Stacy LOL I wouldn't stop by or call or anything. The ball is in his court. Link to post Share on other sites
Stacy69 Posted August 20, 2002 Share Posted August 20, 2002 Well it has been 2 weeks since everything and when I call they still say that he isnt there so should i just give up??? I mean i already stopped out there and he said that he would call that night and he never did and he said that we are gonna be friends but how can we do that if he dont call? I mean I love the kid to death but I dont know what to do anymore! And i got a new cell number and he dont have it so I have to call and give it to him b.c he cant call my house b/c it is long distance so he has no way to reach me until he gets my cell number what should I do now???? Link to post Share on other sites
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