Guest Posted January 5, 2007 Posted January 5, 2007 Got this friend - he's quite strong. We get along great and have lots of fun together BUT he keeps playing this power game with me where he always wins (as he's so much stronger) and ends up smacking me or holding me tight until it hurts. Well, it isn't exactly painful but not pleasant either and when I tell him I don't appreciate it, he tells me I'm a boring sissy or worse - that I like it! He does the same (i.e. the games become rather violent - not the smacking etc) to his brother or mates. How do I get him to be more gentle and treat me like the woman I am?
norajane Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 Stop wrestling with him, or whatever you're doing. He won't treat you like a girl if you act like one of his mates.
Recommended Posts