resi71 Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 I gived gift to my love for xmas.Later night i went there,she kick me out.So far no contact and no return gifts.It is have been month now when she break up with me.What is in her mind?Just accept the gifts or she takes time and wants to get back to me?
chryssy83 Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 Did you break up with her or did she break up with you?
Author resi71 Posted January 6, 2007 Author Posted January 6, 2007 hey chryssy83 she break up with me.just last week together we talk about move in together in 1 st february
chryssy83 Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 Okay, you need to stop contacting her, then. Since she took the gifts, it might mean she doesn't totally hate you, or maybe she is like me and just sits and stares at them without knowing what to do because the gifts are weird. Regardless, realize that part of the joy in giving is the giving itself--no matter what she does. You need to give her time to be alone. This means no calling, emailing, going over there, etc. She may have wanted to move in together before, but she doesn't now. You need to take a break from her as well--to get perspective on this whole thing. Right now you just come across as desperate. Desperate is not attractive.
Author resi71 Posted January 6, 2007 Author Posted January 6, 2007 thank you chryssy83 sense xmas we had no contact at all.I like to see will be remamber my bday next week.
chryssy83 Posted January 6, 2007 Posted January 6, 2007 Prepare yourself for the possibility that nothing else is gonna happen. That way, if nothing does it helps you move on. If something does, it'll be a pleasant surprise. No pressure. Find something to keep yourself occupied. Good luck!
Author resi71 Posted January 6, 2007 Author Posted January 6, 2007 i will wait for end of january.Last time she break up with me same way,then she got back to me after two weeks
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