Ultimate ATF Posted January 7, 2007 Share Posted January 7, 2007 Whats up. Alright lets get started. First of all, I am a Junior High Student, if that helps at all. There is this girl. I love her to death. I mean so much, I can barely talk to her without coughing or studdering or sweating. I feel not worthy of her love, so, therefore, I am very shy to ask if she likes me. I think there might be a good chance that she likes me. The girl is my age, and has a little sister the age of my bro, so they are friends. And my parents and their parents are good friends. So, one day, the two little kids (my bro and the girls sis) asked if we could go out to dinner with each other and talk because we had nothing to do. The parents said "Sure! That sounds great!" Then, when they said that, I saw (from the corner of my eye) the girl that I love say "Yes" quietly and hopped in their car. You may be thinking that is definitely a gesture of love, but we are also slight friends because we are in the same class. But, we are not like best buddies. Just classmates. Does that mean she likes me? So, throughout the dinner, we talked--well, I stared into her beautiful eyes most of the time--and she talked a lot (I paid attention, but her eyes are like a differnet world, looking into them is like looking at a whole other object). Really just about school stuff and her cheerleading squad. I replied with agreement in what she hates and likes, etc. After the dinner, when we were walking away, she did say goodbye. She did, I didn't start it. Later on, weeks after the dinner, the family decided to invite us over to their house for dinner and games (ya know, out of friendship). So, I walked in the house, said hello, whats up, hows life treatin ya...etc etc etc. I finally made my way to the back bedroom, where the girls room was. I did notice something...the little girls bedroom (my bros friend) was VERY VERY messy. But, this girls room was next to spotless. So, we played Gauntlet on the PS2 for a long time. Not the best idea for a romantic game, haha, but shes a cool girl, and thats what she wanted to do. SHe kept on offering me food, drinks, ice cream, popcorn, movies, etc. We had some ice cream, and then watched a DVD of her Cheerleading Squad and talked to me about it (I hated it, but the closer i moved to her, she never seemed to care.) (Just like in our gym class. We were at opposite ends of this line, and she moved VERY close to me, then moved away, then moved close. She didnt seem to care that I was as sweaty as a 500 pound man that has ran on a treadmill for 2 hours) Then, after the vid, it was time to leave. We said goodbye like 3 times. THen she complimented our car. The she waved goodbye. Again Sorry if that was too long, but I am desparate. Does she like me? Or is she just someone that is wanting to be a friend? I would also like to add that our school's principal guarentees almost 100% that she likes me, becuase she has seen the girl following me many times. But no one trusts the principle. I would gladly apprieciate any help on the situation. Thanks a bunch. ~Austin Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ultimate ATF Posted January 9, 2007 Author Share Posted January 9, 2007 Oh man I forgot to add something, but I cant figure out how to edit that.... There is this other boy that I think she likes. I really hate that kid because everytime i fall in love with someone, he tries to take her away. Im twice the size of him, ill just blow his brains out one day. How do I tell a girl she is beautiful? I can't do it just like that I need some advice there too... Link to post Share on other sites
clatan Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 Well, without being there, it's hard to tell, but I'd say it sounds like a good possibility. Plus, your principle said so. Regardless, I'd say that if you think you like her and she likes hanging out with you, keep hanging out with her. I mean, make a point to hang out more often. That way you'll have a chance of finding out. Also, by hanging out more often, you'll know her better and you'll know whether or not you're truly interested in her. If you know her fairly well, is there something you can ask her to like a dance or something? If not, ask her on some kind of date? If you're nervous about that, don't make it sound like a date. It's probably best to keep her guessing for a while any way. It'll keep her interested in you because it'll be a mystery as to whether or not you like her. Just ask her to go do something. That shouldn't be a problem should it, as far as you being nervous that way? Even if so, why be nervous? She hung out with you playing video games, so I don't see why she wouldn't want to do something else with you. Link to post Share on other sites
typical Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 I would also like to add that our school's principal guarentees almost 100% that she likes me, becuase she has seen the girl following me many times. But no one trusts the principle. I smell a conspiracy. without coughing or studdering or sweating So basically talking to her is like getting the flu then... Im twice the size of him, ill just blow his brains out one day. The bigger they are, the harder they fall, I say...Still, you might want to rethink the way you think...thoughts like these are troublesome. She did, I didn't start it Okay, Okay! I believe you! Geeeezzzz.... I saw (from the corner of my eye) the girl that I love say "Yes" quietly and hopped in their car. You may be thinking that is definitely a gesture of love Yes, you are right...that was EXACTLY what I was thinking....especially the way she hopped instead of glided. That is what initially sold me.. She hung out with you playing video games, so I don't see why she wouldn't want to do something else with you. Exactly. I feel not worthy of her love, so, therefore, I am very shy to ask if she likes me. You have to stop thinking in terms of how untouchable she is. She is a human just like you, you know. She takes craps and picks her nose, farts and burps. Just like you. Is it really necessary to spaz out and sweat all over her? (she sweats too, by the way). How do I tell a girl she is beautiful? I can't do it just like that I need some advice there too... Why the hell not? Of course you can....Maybe to minimize the big moment, the next time she shows you a video of her at cheerleading or a photo of her, tell her that she looks very beautiful in that photo, video, etc...whatever, the point will be made, the silence will be broken. That will make it easier the next time you want to say it. But you cant just stand around wishing something would happen, yet doing nothing and expecting positive results. If she is that special to you, you would think you wouldnt mind working a little harder on letting her know that... also, try not to overanalyze so much. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ultimate ATF Posted February 3, 2007 Author Share Posted February 3, 2007 I haven't been able to be on for a while because my computer reset itself to an earlier date where i had a different video card, then i lost the screen. Its fixed now.Anyway, thank you everyone for your comments. And Typical, you are really funny and make some good points....im going over to her house for a superbowl party on Sunday. I think she likes me. And that other kid that is half the size of me (mostly in width) Has obviously started to like another girl---the two don't even talk anymore. but, anyway, i MIGHT ask her out. Its hard... You have to stop thinking in terms of how untouchable she is. She is a human just like you, you know. She takes craps and picks her nose, farts and burps. Just like you. Is it really necessary to spaz out and sweat all over her? (she sweats too, by the way). Ok, Ill admit, i dont really sweat or anything next to her, that was an exaggeration. Why the hell not? Of course you can....Maybe to minimize the big moment, the next time she shows you a video of her at cheerleading or a photo of her, tell her that she looks very beautiful in that photo, video, etc...whatever, the point will be made, the silence will be broken. That will make it easier the next time you want to say it. But you cant just stand around wishing something would happen, yet doing nothing and expecting positive results. If she is that special to you, you would think you wouldnt mind working a little harder on letting her know that... Ill let her know....somehow.... I like your idea with the picture thing, were i say she looks beautiful... I might say "You look nice in that" or "I like that color on you" etc etc Thanks for all of you guys help so far Link to post Share on other sites
Author Ultimate ATF Posted February 3, 2007 Author Share Posted February 3, 2007 Well, without being there, it's hard to tell, but I'd say it sounds like a good possibility. Plus, your principle said so. Regardless, I'd say that if you think you like her and she likes hanging out with you, keep hanging out with her. I mean, make a point to hang out more often. That way you'll have a chance of finding out. Also, by hanging out more often, you'll know her better and you'll know whether or not you're truly interested in her. If you know her fairly well, is there something you can ask her to like a dance or something? If not, ask her on some kind of date? If you're nervous about that, don't make it sound like a date. It's probably best to keep her guessing for a while any way. It'll keep her interested in you because it'll be a mystery as to whether or not you like her. Just ask her to go do something. That shouldn't be a problem should it, as far as you being nervous that way? Even if so, why be nervous? She hung out with you playing video games, so I don't see why she wouldn't want to do something else with you. No, unforuntely, there is no dance. I wonder if I could get like my buddy to ask her. If she likes me, things will be 100 times easier for me. Link to post Share on other sites
Harris932 Posted February 10, 2007 Share Posted February 10, 2007 no the best way is to ask her in person i know it will be hard to ask but what have u got to lose? make your asking meaningful and dont goof off about it Link to post Share on other sites
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