frannie Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 Ah good. Thought it was a wind-up. Link to post Share on other sites
Romeo Must Die Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 Yesitsme, if you are really MM you got guts kid. Real guts. I'm willing to give it the benefit of the doubt. The air in here has certianly changed, so wether or not you are the real BS or just a poser, the end result is good. And if xMM gets his ass kicked in sideways it will be even better, lol. Ah, well we can always hope for that, right. He's got it coming and thensome. AP has had her awakening and that's all we can really pray for. Her family should always come first in her life, even before herself. Thats what love is all about! It will be a tough road for her (and for you) but this is our lessons in life. It's no easy challenge. We can adjust and make the necessicary changes and try make things better. Don't give up and don't ever turn your back on the ones who matter most to you. For AP, my sweetness, this is for you... You got to give a little, take a little And let your poor heart break a little that's the glory of love You've got to laugh a little, cry a little Until the clouds roll by a little that's the glory of love As long as there's the two of us We've got the world and all its charms But when the world is through with us We've got each other's arms You've got to win a little, lose a little And always have the *blues* a little that's the glory of love Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 The air in here has certianly changed, so wether or not you are the real BS or just a poser, the end result is good. So the end justifies the means? Actually, AP had already changed her viewpoint prior to the poser showing up. But if the poser wants to take credit for it, then that is good. The poser may certainly derive seom pleasure from that. Glad for you! I suggest that said poser respond to other threads in the OW/OM section. This not only will resolve many affairs, but it will probably make the poser feel better about his...or her...past. Yes, that is sarcasm. I think this Board serves a different purpose than providng a place for scare tactics...as ineffective as they are. AP, congratulations. Please stick with your plan. You know my feelings as stated before. This Board is here for you if you need us. Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 ahhh sweet james. You sound a little protective of AP. You're not having a little pm fest with her now are you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Meaplus3 Posted January 9, 2007 Author Share Posted January 9, 2007 Yesitsme, if you are really MM you got guts kid. Real guts. I'm willing to give it the benefit of the doubt. The air in here has certianly changed, so wether or not you are the real BS or just a poser, the end result is good. And if xMM gets his ass kicked in sideways it will be even better, lol. Ah, well we can always hope for that, right. He's got it coming and thensome. AP has had her awakening and that's all we can really pray for. Her family should always come first in her life, even before herself. Thats what love is all about! It will be a tough road for her (and for you) but this is our lessons in life. It's no easy challenge. We can adjust and make the necessicary changes and try make things better. Don't give up and don't ever turn your back on the ones who matter most to you. For AP, my sweetness, this is for you... You got to give a little, take a little And let your poor heart break a little that's the glory of love You've got to laugh a little, cry a little Until the clouds roll by a little that's the glory of love As long as there's the two of us We've got the world and all its charms But when the world is through with us We've got each other's arms You've got to win a little, lose a little And always have the *blues* a little that's the glory of love Romeo, Thank's for your kind word's. I love the little song, it's so true. AP:) Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 ahhh sweet james. You sound a little protective of AP. You're not having a little pm fest with her now are you? :o I have been found out.....I am the MM. And thank you for the "sweet" compliment. You and I need to start a PM fest...yes? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Meaplus3 Posted January 9, 2007 Author Share Posted January 9, 2007 :o I have been found out.....I am the MM. And thank you for the "sweet" compliment. You and I need to start a PM fest...yes? Oh your to silly James! You could never be XMM because you come across as far to normal, something that XMM was not. Thank's for making me laugh. :laugh: AP:) Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 :o I have been found out.....I am the MM. And thank you for the "sweet" compliment. You and I need to start a PM fest...yes? don't bother sweets, NF is mine...besides she won't answer pm 'come ons' she helped me out my fruity greatness, I am indebted to her, NF is every OW's dream come true! our savior has come! some one sound some horns and beat some drums!!! Link to post Share on other sites
noforgiveness Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 don't bother sweets, NF is mine...besides she won't answer pm 'come ons' she helped me out my fruity greatness, I am indebted to her, NF is every OW's dream come true! our savior has come! some one sound some horns and beat some drums!!! oh there's my stalker. Wow you even admit to stalking me in pm's which i ignore. You are such an upstanding individual. Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 oh there's my stalker. Wow you even admit to stalking me in pm's which i ignore. You are such an upstanding individual. glad you know it to sweet heart Link to post Share on other sites
puddleofmud Posted January 10, 2007 Share Posted January 10, 2007 I feel that AP has just gotten ANGRY about things--it's not like we all haven't or don't--but the anger tends to come in stages as full doses are really hard to handle. Sorry, AP, I don't really want to be talking as if "you aren't in the room and have ears". I am just trying to find a way to begin my response... AP, if you would indulge little ol' me for a moment: did these strong feelings that *I* am interpresting FOR YOU as anger (and forgive me should I be using the incorrect emotion, but also remember that anger has many facets: frustration, disappointment, feeling lack of control, etc.) begin w/ recent CONTACT with your ex-MM? You have been on such a high point lately and I am truly sad to hear that you are currently feeling frustrated. What I am seeking is WHY you have perhaps, suddenly, have fallen out of your very well grown emotional tree? Not the crazy tree as you are NOT at all nuts as you have always posted very confidently even within your most difficult moments. Did contact w/ him make you feel this badly? If so then can we help you feel better? What may we do to? Hugs to you! Link to post Share on other sites
puddleofmud Posted January 10, 2007 Share Posted January 10, 2007 I feel that AP has just gotten ANGRY about things--it's not like we all haven't or don't--but the anger tends to come in stages as full doses are really hard to handle. Sorry, AP, I don't really want to be talking as if "you aren't in the room and have ears". I am just trying to find a way to begin my response... AP, if you would indulge little ol' me for a moment: did these strong feelings that *I* am interpresting FOR YOU as anger (and forgive me should I be using the incorrect emotion, but also remember that anger has many facets: frustration, disappointment, feeling lack of control, etc.) begin w/ recent CONTACT with your ex-MM? You have been on such a high point lately and I am truly sad to hear that you are currently feeling frustrated. What I am seeking is WHY you have perhaps, suddenly, have fallen out of your very well grown emotional tree? Not the crazy tree as you are NOT at all nuts as you have always posted very confidently even within your most difficult moments. Did contact w/ him make you feel this badly? If so or not then can we help you feel better? What may we do? Hugs to you! Link to post Share on other sites
puddleofmud Posted January 10, 2007 Share Posted January 10, 2007 Sorry for the double post! Not sure how that happened.. Link to post Share on other sites
JamesM Posted January 10, 2007 Share Posted January 10, 2007 oh there's my stalker. Wow you even admit to stalking me in pm's which i ignore. You are such an upstanding individual. Oh, PM as in Private Messaging! Here I thought I was being accused of having evening meals with AP! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Meaplus3 Posted January 10, 2007 Author Share Posted January 10, 2007 I feel that AP has just gotten ANGRY about things--it's not like we all haven't or don't--but the anger tends to come in stages as full doses are really hard to handle. Sorry, AP, I don't really want to be talking as if "you aren't in the room and have ears". I am just trying to find a way to begin my response... AP, if you would indulge little ol' me for a moment: did these strong feelings that *I* am interpresting FOR YOU as anger (and forgive me should I be using the incorrect emotion, but also remember that anger has many facets: frustration, disappointment, feeling lack of control, etc.) begin w/ recent CONTACT with your ex-MM? You have been on such a high point lately and I am truly sad to hear that you are currently feeling frustrated. What I am seeking is WHY you have perhaps, suddenly, have fallen out of your very well grown emotional tree? Not the crazy tree as you are NOT at all nuts as you have always posted very confidently even within your most difficult moments. Did contact w/ him make you feel this badly? If so or not then can we help you feel better? What may we do? Hugs to you! Hi Puddle, I agree with you that I have posted with very much confidence. I feel that anyone involved in an "A" can feel a large range of emotions and some that don't always compliment them as a person. There has been NC with XMM since Mid December. This is the first time since the "A" started over 1 year ago that NC has been a compliance on both sides. The sense of loss stems from a reliance on XMM for emotional need's that I should have been looking to my H for. The main reason I believe that I feel into this "A" was because I was avoiding the conflict's in my M. Thank's so much puddle for thinking of me, you are a great person. It may be a very long road ahead but I am ready to travel it. AP:) Link to post Share on other sites
puddleofmud Posted January 10, 2007 Share Posted January 10, 2007 It's OK, none of us are all that confident at every moment of the day and well have our weak spots--so when you have one just vent on here--not much will bother me. My "affair" with the ex-MM has filled me so full of spit and venom I can take anything anyone else spits out! Hugs to you! Link to post Share on other sites
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