0217174 Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 I dated this girl a few years ago for only a few months, but there was definately something there .. why it ended who knows. Actually I do know and it was cause I had "issues" and so I backed away. She was kinda left in the dark.. and sadly that was it. I saw she had tried to call me once, maybe a year later. I missed the call and didn't call back cause at the time I didn't feel I wanted anything to do with her. But now I totally regret it and wish I had kept her, cause I just have this gut feeling she would've been the one. Well the other day out of curiousity I googled her and found some obscure blog site she has. After readin thru her posts I found out she had some kind of social anxiety thing which totally explains why we had tension.. because I do too! When I read it, I was like.. ahhhh man, if I only knew. Well I want to contact her but it's been years.. would be totally weird and creepy if I did on there since there's no way I could've just "found" it by accident. I know under any other circumstances I would say forget it, too creepy.. but this is different cause her post's so much explain things and I want her so bad!! I just f***ked up back then, but it was totally just bad times for me. Is there anyway I can reach her without it being weird? Like maybe some kind of setup. Pretend I'm somebody else who happens to know me? Thanx a lot.. Link to post Share on other sites
Zaira Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 I found an old friend by googling. I just don't see the problem. It's just another avenue to track people down I suppose. Just see how you go. What do you have to lose? Link to post Share on other sites
Author 0217174 Posted January 8, 2007 Author Share Posted January 8, 2007 Well I'll admit, I might be guilty of putting a wee bit too much effort finding her, since it wasn't a simple look up of her name in google. I actually found some older sites and searched that username.. Link to post Share on other sites
Zaira Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 Oh well, I really don't think she needs to know the EXACT DETAILS of how you found her Link to post Share on other sites
magda Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 Tell her you looked for her, it's sweet. Nothing to be ashamed about. It's a nice, flirtacious way to start. A few years back a guy who I'd met once found my blog and we ended up dating for awhile after emailing a bit. It's flattering to be "found". Link to post Share on other sites
Ultimate ATF Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 Don't lie to the girl... Just leave a post on her blog or e-mail her or something. Say "Hey, I've been looking for you...long time no see. Whats going on?" Ya know, something like that. Link to post Share on other sites
vanessabg Posted January 11, 2007 Share Posted January 11, 2007 I agree to Ultimate!here,you should never lie,just have a casual talk with her through internet chat or mail etc. Link to post Share on other sites
JCD Posted January 12, 2007 Share Posted January 12, 2007 Tell her that you were thinking about her and that you looked her up on the internet and want to get back together again. Nice and simple. Link to post Share on other sites
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