myboysesmom Posted January 8, 2007 Share Posted January 8, 2007 My husband of 7 years continues to accuse me of cheating on him almost 8 (yes EIGHT!) years ago when we lived apart for 3 months...i didnt, but he is obsessed with it and he checks my email regularly thinking i will "slip" and email my "old lover" or whatever....im not quite sure what he thinks....but it seems a little crazy. so im wondering is this a manifestation of his own guilt? He says he thinks about it constantly....i feel bad that he has felt this for 8 years, but i cant prove i didnt cheat. maybe i should be questioning him more?? what do you think??? Link to post Share on other sites
Messed_Up Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 Had you split up for the 3 months or was you still together....I think I would question him more as it seems sad that he doesnt believe you and it was so long ago. I dont think he thinks you have cheated coz surely if he was that convinced he would have left you which makes me think he is doing it as maybe he is the guilty one. I dont know for sure but thats what it seems like but he could just be being innocent and is just worried you did. Link to post Share on other sites
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