lhasa Posted January 9, 2007 Share Posted January 9, 2007 I was dating a girl for almost 2 years and within that period we broke up a few times for short intervals...However things were real good most of the time....Our last breakup was in August for 3 weeks where we didn't speak during that time...I emailed her during that time and she didn't respond back to me for a week from the time I sent my email...She finally responded and started seeing each other without the commitment..We continued to see each other with no commitments until her birthday on sept 23rd...We had a great time, went to dinner and she told me that her client which is a male brought her a puppy... She swore that she didn't like him and I believed her...Two days later she was supposed to come over my house and she didn't for some lame reason so we arranged for her to come over the next night and she provided another lame excuse. This was out of character for her...I was mad and didn't contact her for a week so after the week I sent her an email...She failed to respond to my email so I sent her another and then a day later, I left a voicemail for her...From Sep 27 until Nov 23 I must of tried to contact her 20 times and she didn't respond to any of them...In my last email on Thanksgiving, I told her that I would not be contacting her any more and that I love her, want to work this out but since she has not contacted me I was moving on... Two days later I saw her online and IM'd her and said hi...I asked her what was going on and she told me that she met someone and I responded "not the guy that you said you didn't like that brought you the puppy"...She said "yes" and I said that he's a rebound since we were still working on our relationship...She replied that it may be but it's going great now and then she said she had to go and logged off abruptly without saying goodbuy... I know the reason she broke up with me and it was my fault...I took her for granted and wasn't there for her when she really needed me...Her mom is real sick and the doctors only gave her a year in Feb 2006...So I stopped contacting her for a month after I saw her online and on 12/29 at 1:01a there was a text page from her wishing me and my family happy holidays...I didn't respond back. Not sure why she would even start up anything since she's been so cold, said she was with another guy and failed to even respond back to me over the last 3.5 months...I have since gone for therapy to learn how to be there for her or anyone and not be so self centered...Her text page on 12/29 gave me some false hope since I haven't heard from her since(10 days)...As you can imagine, I want another chance to be with her so my questions are? 1) Why do you supose that she texted paged me after 3 months? Could it be really because she want's me any family to have a good holiday? 2) How do I deal with the situation if she calls/text and tells me her mom has passed way? 3) My birthday is at the end of Jan, so what do I do if she text pages me a happy birthday? What should i do in terms of responding back? Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
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